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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I've got a stready relationship with my b/f of 1 1/2 yrs and i've been thinking of buying a vibrator as i'm curious and we both can hav fun with it, but i only mentioned the word vibrator and he said that if i ever got one he wudn't b happy coz he said it wud make him feel inadequate. I can see his point but what can i do, i dont want to hurt his feelings but, its something different to spice our sex life up and have a laugh.

What do i do??

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hide it from him <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i can't hide it from him coz i live with him and he will find it. I also don't want to hide things from him as i dont want to lie to him or anything like that. We can talk bout anything to each other. This is the only thing we can't.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    only buy a little one????!!!! <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i need advice on how to talk to him about it, i haven't got a clue what to say and how not to hurt his feelings. Its not i don't get enjoyment, i do, but its something else we can use aswell.

    Am i the only girl who doesn't have one ere?? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well my BF bought mine for me so I don't have that problem. But when it comes down to it it's up to you just tell him why your getting it and that it wont replace him, it's just a new experiance you would like to try! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell him to grow up.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I hear u can buy small lip stick shaped ones that actually look like a lip stick. hide it in ur hand-bag.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by king of the k0p:
    <STRONG>I hear u can buy small lip stick shaped ones that actually look like a lip stick. hide it in ur hand-bag.</STRONG>

    Goto ann summers, they sell a small purple one thats about 4 inches long. (bought one a while back). It's very discreet, when you next have sex just whip it out and order him to watch you or something, then enjoy.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell him that skin feels better than rubber, and that a vibrator is a fun toy to have. Also tell him that if you cant have a dildo, hes not allowed to wank...its the same principle, without getting messy fingers.

    I love my gf having a vibe, so much fun <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yup, and vibrators never get tired <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i would love to have one but in my country they don't have wat u call the 'sex shop'...selling the vibrators,kinky whips..heheh...

    Persuade him to have a vibrator...well..tell him ..wat if just in case he's not in mood(tired..) and u r horny..ehehh

    that's the use of vibrator..heheh...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    angel^jessie hat country are you from then? so no one there owns a vibrator?? you can order them over the internet <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sure if you sit down & talk about it with him, explaining all the fun you both can have with it, then he'll agree. Take him with you to pick 1. To make a sweeping generalisation, so don't flame me, I can't imagine any male who wouldn't enjoy the prospect.
    <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by xx deeby doo xx:
    <STRONG>angel^jessie hat country are you from then? so no one there owns a vibrator?? you can order them over the internet <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>


    Yepp..here in my country we don't have it...we have to import it illegally from other countries..if we order from internet..the immigration people will open up the parcel and then show it to a lot of people before giving approvement ..that's how bad..
    <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you in a moslem country then?
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