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Threesomes?
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A few months ago,me and my boyfreind got really drunk.He asked me how big my ex's penis was and i said quite big,cos it was! (penis size has never been an issue for me though) Then he asked me if we could get someone to have a threesome with us.I assumed he meant a female and i got really upset.Now i cant stop thinking about it cos i keep thinking theres someone he wants to sleep with or something.Everytime i mention it to him he gets cross and tells me to get over it,but i cant.It hurts so much and everytime it re-surfaces,i get so upset. What do you think caused him to say this and how can i get over it?
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here is another subject about 3somes maybe it will help you.
i think 3somes are stupid, if ur ina loving realtionship, you don't need a 3rd party and i think u shud tel him that.
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Maybe you could convince yourself that it was good that he felt he could broach (?sp) the subject with you. He was probably hurt by your reaction & has now gone on the defensive so he wont get hurt again.
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i mean if it was me id say does it matter im sleepin wiv u not him or if he insisted id say no it was smaller than yours just to not have him paranoid
he obviously has a complex about his size though if hes askin u stuff like that i mean i dont ask my bfs am i tighter than their exs or something,
he probably was hurt or something n being babyish thought hed get u back??
I'd suggest you sit him down and tell him you really need him to know how hurt you are, and that you're worried about it.
if he cares about you he should listen to you, and put your fears to rest..
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