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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi. i was just wundering the amount of time it nomrally takes you guys to ejaculate when you get head or wanked off by girls. dont give me loads of crap about it doesnt matter how long, if she loves you. im just wondering

thankx
monstar!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think anyone has a set time - sometimes I take longer to cum because I hold myself back if I'm enjoying the sensation of being sucked or wanked. If it's a hurried job, I cum quicker. It depends on location and the moment in many ways.

    Anyway, if you want to make any friends on this board in future, I suggest that you don't accuse the regulars of writing "crap" answers. It doesn't start you off on the right foot very well ...

    Why don't you start by saying how long YOU take to cum etc so that it can be discussed accordingly?


    [This message has been edited by J@ke (edited 16-04-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i didnt mean that offensively J@ke. I just meant you always get answers like it doesnt matter how long it takes you the girl won't mind if she loves you.

    I didnt mean to offend anyone, or you either. I dont want to say how long it takes me because I dont know what the 'average' is and so i'd rather not tell people, thats why I was asking. The only reason I said i didnt want any crap answers was so that I knew I'd get an aswer.

    Sorry

    Monster


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by J@ke:


    Anyway, if you want to make any friends on this board in future, I suggest that you don't accuse the regulars of writing "crap" answers. It doesn't start you off on the right foot very well ...


    But you do write crap j@ke.

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by J@ke:
    Anyway, if you want to make any friends on this board in future, I suggest that you don't accuse the regulars of writing "crap" answers. It doesn't start you off on the right foot very well ...

    Why don't you start by saying how long YOU take to cum etc so that it can be discussed accordingly?


    [This message has been edited by J@ke (edited 16-04-2001).]

    hmmmmm, not very friendly J@ke <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    j9

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Okay - I didn't mean to upset or be unfriendly to Monster. I just thought that the "crap" advice he mentioned has been good advice in the past ... maybe it was just the way I read it.

    Monster, huge aplogies from me ... I'm sorry! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by city_boy:
    But you do write crap j@ke.

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Hehehehe ... I know I do ... it's the others I was standing up for! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    But I'm still very sorry for having been so shirty to Monster ... Monster, once again, sorry ... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i understood what monster ment, but as jake said u could have used a better word than "crap" however i relise that u just wanted a strait answer.

    i know im a girl so i cant give an answer from a personal opinion, but........... u cant really give a time cos every time is different! ok, if me and my bf are having sex and we dont want just a "quicky" then we have 2 slow down every 5,6,7 mins or so. but if im wanking him just 2 give him pleasure it could take about 10 mins.

    i kinda got the hint from the way u wouldnt give your time that u r a bit worried about it.??? dont be!

    neway ive prob not made ne sence so far.....so ill go!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jolizzie11:
    i understood what monster ment, but as jake said u could have used a better word than "crap" however i relise that u just wanted a strait answer.

    I know it doesn't excuse my behaviour but that's how I felt when I read it ... but, hopefully, it's all sorted now. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i think it will be! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; i like u j@ke! u always seem 2 get into these kinda situs!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jolizzie11:
    yeah i think it will be! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; i like u j@ke! u always seem 2 get into these kinda situs!!!

    Aw! Thanks, babes!!! *hugs*

    My problem is that sometimes I say things as I see 'em and, of course, it's always hard to retract it afterwards (especially if I haven't seen 'em correctly).

    It's not a very good attribute of mine - especially as I get mortified if I feel I've hurt or upset anyone. I'm a bit of a wanker really ...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As no one has actually answered the question I think i will step in. It all depends on the situation. If we want a quickie because her parents are downstairs then it takes us about 10 minutes to cum. If we have all day then I can last for about 3/4 of an hour. It depends on the risk factor.
    IT also depends on the posistion we are in. If we have to be quick I am usually on top and I cum a lot quicker than if she is on top as I tend to get a bit carried away with it all, lol.

  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by J@ke:
    I'm a bit of a wanker really ...
    ... making you perfectly qualified to answer this post <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; nah only joking, i dont think you are in the bad sense of the word, i think okay a lot of the time you just say what you feel and it may cause misunderstanding, but i think its good you dont beat about the bush too much! and you always have interesting thoughts on subjects. right im gonna turn this round from being a "praise j@ke" thread now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    i really think it depends on the situation, as to how long it takes. okay i suppose you could try and find out the minimum amount of time it would "take" if you applied the same amount of pressure and at the same speed and everything, to find out how long it would be from start to finish before its inevitable you're gonna come, but thats insane!!

    it depends on how horny you are, whether you're with a partner, whether you're trying to prolong the experience or whether you just want it to be a tension release sort of thing.. with my ex bf im sure we made it last about half an hour or 45 mins or something a few times... but then other times it might not take long at all. so monster i dont think you can really get a straight answer here, like "between 5 and 10 mins is normal", coz its not, every situation is different.

    Burn baby burn!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks alot guys

    i guess when i do the job myself its like upto 30 mins if i slow down like once

    but i guess with a girl u wana slow down more so i guess its ok

    but thanks alot
    and jake dont worry about it i didnt get offended!! s'ok.

    thanks

    monsTer
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jolizzie11:
    i understood what monster ment, but as jake said u could have used a better word than "crap" however i relise that u just wanted a strait answer.

    i know im a girl so i cant give an answer from a personal opinion, but........... u cant really give a time cos every time is different! ok, if me and my bf are having sex and we dont want just a "quicky" then we have 2 slow down every 5,6,7 mins or so. but if im wanking him just 2 give him pleasure it could take about 10 mins.

    i kinda got the hint from the way u wouldnt give your time that u r a bit worried about it.??? dont be!

    neway ive prob not made ne sence so far.....so ill go!!!

    thx everyone, espesh u jolizzie11, i was kinda worried cos i just didnt know what the 'average' was. and with all worries, theyre simply bred off not knowing or bad information

    thx ;-)

    monstar
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