How wet?

Girl-From-Mars · April 2001

firstly, what were you doing trying to have sex with these girls without protection?!?!?! the only reason you should be doing this is if they're on the pill, and you're both virgins or you've been screened for all STIs.

secondly... well 2 hours foreplay should be enough to make her wet enough for sex.. did they seem wet to you to the touch? if it was their first time then they might be nervous, they might have tensed up the vagina muscles, perhaps involuntarily. this is a condition known as vaginismus which can prevent them from being able to relax the muscles enough for penetration, making the vagina seem incredibly tight.

if i ever try and have sex without being completely wet then it just hurts a bit and is sore, but usually more foreplay will remedy that. my first time it hurt incredibly and my then bf had to push quite hard into me to break my hymen, and it didnt make any difference how wet i was. you have to be gentle and take your time if it is a girl's first time... although if the hymen is still intact you may have to push harder to break it. but use protection!!!!

hope this helped.

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Former Member · April 2001

Former Member · April 2001

i heard that the hymen can still be partially intact even if u use tampons. is that true? and does that mean that it would hurt more?

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Girl-From-Mars · April 2001

Originally posted by Drifter:
i heard that the hymen can still be partially intact even if u use tampons. is that true? and does that mean that it would hurt more?

yes, yes and yes. id used tampons for ages before having sex, but did that make any difference? no. i can tell you for sure my hymen was still there even after all that! and it hurt quite a bit. but i suppose it's different for everyone.

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Former Member · April 2001

Originally posted by Quicksilver:
i know they were both wet but i dont know if they were wet enough. how do u tell??

Hiya... If you aren't sure if the girl is lubricated enuff u could always use a water based jelly (like KY Jelly).
Different girls have a different wetness (Not tht i know, its just tht ive heard this!).
It also may just be that they were really nervous. You've got to try and make her relax, maybe by a massage or something more sensual. Then it could become sexual and hopefully she will be more relaxed.
Anyway, good luck.
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Former Member · April 2001

Sounds wierd but sumtimes if the girl is scared or summit then her muscles tense up which makes it hard for u to enter her. Make sure your partner is completerly relaxed. Oh and never use vaseline as a lubricant cos it can rot the condom <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">

Former Member · April 2001

i think that a lot of foreplay should do the trick. but sometimes when u get down to it, the girl would just suddenly get all nervous again, and without realising, she tenses her vagina muscles up and it makes u harder to get it, then when u force it, it's bound to hurt.

try and create a really romantic atmosphere to help her to loosen up. candles are cool and it creates a really cosy atmosphere, in dark rooms obviously! then soft music in the background is nice too. not too loud and none of that dance tunes!! massages are great and u can use some really nice soothing massage oils. the smell would send the both of u floating.

just some suggestions!

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Former Member · April 2001

the girl doesn't have to be wet at all, otherwise rapes wouldn't be able to happen.......will hurt though.......

Former Member · April 2001

In my experience a girl produces less lubrication when shes on the pill and it can also take a long time to get her 'wet' if shes not in the mood for sex.
It is also easier to penetrate your girl if you:
1. have some lubrication on your penis, either from lots of 'pre-cum'(get the girl to play with you well)or use some 'spit' and rub it on the tip. The penis head is designed in its shape to aid penatration if nobody has noticed that one.Or, if the girl is on the pill and no condom is to be worn, rub your penis up and down her 'slit' to wet the head and her lips and it will pop in a treat.
2. get you girl to pull her lips apart a little.It's not gonna go in if your pushing against 2 fleshy lips to get to that hole is it! My g/f eases hers apart and also guides my penis into her. Which saves the embarresment of missing or aiming for the wrong hole!
Any comments on these tips please.
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Former Member · April 2001

motion as well is another thing which helps maintain penitration...

once inside, good motion from both parties is essential to keep the male inside the female..

/me scratches his head

Why do I sound like someone from a sex ed video? must be that I'm tired...

Girl-From-Mars · April 2001

Originally posted by Justin Credible:
motion as well is another thing which helps maintain penitration...

once inside, good motion from both parties is essential to keep the male inside the female..

/me scratches his head

Why do I sound like someone from a sex ed video? must be that I'm tired...

lol you do a bit, i have to admit.. last time i was REALLY tired i started being all biological about everything and gave all these detailed answers, weird.

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