Sex after Orgasm

Former Member

Don't know if this is the norm or what?

When having foreplay and being fingered it gets me real randy and makes sex easy But if I have an orgasm during the foreplay, I go real tight and this makes sex impossible

Is this normal or what?

Former Member

Yeah, thats bc you've just had an orgasm. There's no real firm distiction btw foreplay and sex, if you orgasm then that's it. You can have sex after that but you'd better wait a while to calm yourself down.

Former Member

Well, I can still have sex if I've had an orgasm during foreplay. *ponders* Maybe it's not about whether you're 'normal' or not. People's bodies work in different ways I guess. I dunno. Am rambling. Maybe it's just how your body works.

Just don't orgasm during foreplay. I don't know. I'm sooo useless.

*waits for someone with better advice to come along*

Former Member

Try not to cum during foreplay... Boys have to do it all the time...

Former Member

Nice one

Former Member

Thanks

Just didn't know if I had a problem or not!

Former Member

used to go out with this guy who used to come in his pants during foreplay and it weirded me out and so i wouldnt sleep with him, that wasnt the reason i gave though...:(

Former Member

I consider myself quite lucky, my girlfriend gets so turned on she comes really easily, I hardly have to touch her. Whilst my last ex was a different story, but that wasn't either my fault or hers, it was down to the twat of an ex boyfriend she had, he'd caused the the problem!