how do u finger a girl?

Former Member

ok, well i thought i knew it all, but i fingered my girlfriend 2nigth, and she didnt seem to enjoy it as much as i expected. please tell me how, i really wanna please her!

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be gentle. tease her. tickle it a bit...

ask her what she likes. sometimes girls don't think to tell us poor guys what they like and what they don't!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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having a finger up ur twat aint exactly excitin lol u gotta mess with her clitoris to make her feel good.

short but sweet <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

ask her what she likes n then ull know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by luv-snail:
when i rub my fingers around what I think is her clitoris, she says it makes her feel like she needs a pee! is this right? ot have I hit the wrong spot?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

you have hit the right spot.sometimes when yr really turned on it does feel like you need a toilet but you dont really.its a great feeling.
i love it when i fell a finger inserted,its such a great feeling-so close and intimate.of course, yes the clit is VERY important but be gentle first and as she gets turned on more go faster and press more firmly and lissing the breasts whilst doing this helps a GREAT deal,and the neck...and the lips-absolute pleasure.

Girl-From-Mars

Originally posted by Spirit II:
having a finger up ur twat aint exactly excitin lol u gotta mess with her clitoris to make her feel good.

short but sweet <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

ask her what she likes n then ull know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

*round of applause* lol

sometimes it can be good putting a finger or two inside, but only briefly and then it just gets boring and then you have to go back to what you were doing before and then thats usually better.

no DONT do it too hard, its not good and it hurts.


asking is all very well, but what if youre shy? kinda hard to talk about it, unless its when youre doing it and you ask if its good or what you can do better and if she tries to move your hand try and do what shes suggesting and not just do something more painful! nails are definitely NOT good. just use the fingertips and not the sides of your fingers or the nails sometimes hurt on her clitoris and rub it and around it but not your whole hand moving fast, just stroking movements and be gentle! and im sure theres more but right now ive forgotten what i have and havent said lol

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My g/f dont like her clit being touched, she dont mind it, but everytime i ask her what she likes she moves my hand to her hole and gives me the hint of wanting me inside her (fingers) so what can i do then? happened with another g/f who said her clit hurt when i touched it even though she dripping wet, but my last g/f loved her clit being rubbed but could only cum when i fingered her fast, so any ideas wot to do now?

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its got nowt to do with how wet her hole is, if u rub her clit too hard before stimulating it, it will hurt n this is probably whyshe moves ur hand away. once u rub it 4 a while the more arroused she will get and the more pleasure she will get.

Girl-From-Mars

hmmmm. maybe your rubbing too hard? also if you dont touch it directly but touch around it, and especially the hooded skin part above it, that shouldnt hurt as long as youre gentle. but then if your gf is telling you what she likes then i guess she'd know. i dont know what to suggest really, just most people ive talked to about it agree that touching the clit is a lot better than just actually fingering the girl. hmmmmmm

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Girl-From-Mars

ohhhhh im getting so confused!!! right lonely in life, luv_snail and chrishot4u all have different questions about fingering, very subtely different and my mind cant cope!!

so if my replies to all of these topics dont make too much sense then im sorry!

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Girl-From-Mars

luv_snail, its too confusing and ive posted too many things in too many places, but everything ive said ive been thinking about all the posts ive read on it, thats including yours, so read all the replies as if they're meant for you!!

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Girl-From-Mars

to the uninitiated (or inexperienced to orgasm), i guess your girlfriend could mistake feeling really turned on for needing the loo. its like a feeling of tension building more than anything, but nice tension. and it makes you feel like you need a release, which she may interpret as needing a wee. if she actually reaches orgasm she will probably notice the difference and then it will be a lot clearer to her. also ive heard people say that when the G-spot is stimulated, it has the same effect of making you feel like you need the loo, because its near hte bladder or urinary tubes or something, not too sure. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

anyway hope thats helped a little bit!

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it helped more than a little bit! everything you've ever said is SOOO HELPFUL!

GFM, you rule!

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Girl-From-Mars

wow, thank you! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

if it was possible, id say id have to come here more often coz everyone says such nice thigns abotu me, city_boy and luv_snail have said nice stuff today and its great! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

glad to be of help to you luv_snail and anyone else whos ever been helped by anything ive ever said lol

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Girl-From-Mars

oh and i love your capital L hehe

ive just realised i havent used any of the icons for replies for aaaaages. at first they were this massive novelty and i somehow managed to forget. oh im so ashamed.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
wow, thank you! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

if it was possible, id say id have to come here more often coz everyone says such nice thigns abotu me, city_boy and luv_snail have said nice stuff today and its great! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

glad to be of help to you luv_snail and anyone else whos ever been helped by anything ive ever said lol

Ive been mentioned on a thread i havent even replied on. Thanx emma. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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Girl-From-Mars

hehe, s'ok <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
oh and i love your capital L hehe

oh well i must admit, i pretty much blatantly stole that from LUKA!

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Originally posted by luv-snail:
tia

Why have you written this? What does it mean? You have stolen my name!!!!!

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tia = thanks in advance

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Originally posted by luv-snail:
tia = thanks in advance

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Sorry got a little possesive over my name then didn't I!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt; I didn''t know my name meant thanks in advance! How cool is that!!!
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lol... you could have taken that in a really bad way... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

(i gotta stop using this symbol: <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">)

Girl-From-Mars

i didnt know TIA = thanks in advance either. thats quite cool to have it as a name though pussycat! hehe

you are quite excessive in the use of the <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; luv_snail! lol almost as bad with me and the <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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although it's better than having a long (or short) boring posts with no smilies to break it up. especially when the post has absolutely no reason or purpose. a bit like this one.