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You know I had exactly the same thoughts as you, until I lost my viriginity, and since then well you all know what I'm like now. No I don't have casual sex, but that's cos I like being in rel's too much for that.
But sex should be for fun, god yeah you can do the standard bit of kisisng, guy jumps on top, roll over and so on, but where's the fun in that. Humans do have sex for pleasure, it's a well known fact but I for one don't get pleasure out of a routine such as above.
Everyone is entitled to have sex when they want and I'm not flaming you for your views. i do admire them, and sometimes wish i'd kept to my own thoughts like that. But the way you say things, like your disgusted with people on here etc, is what leads you to getting flamed. You can't push your views on people like that and slag them off for how they want to live their lives.
I know thats not exactly what you said, but what you implied. Why shouldnt younger kids have sex? Obviously there is a limit, but if its safe and there ready than whats the problem?
Sex is fuuuuuuun, dont make it out to be such a chore!
Sex is disgusting…….It’s messy & smelly if done rightly!:p
Your a sick, sick child alex :no:
my sis is still a virgin ... but....she is...nearly 30
I reckon she won't have sex until she gets married
Dead classy
I know! They had Charmin and eeeeverything!
*giggle*
yea but then u'll get these arseholes having sex wit kids that are like 11 and 12. think about it. the age of concent is there because 16 is the average age that a girls body is phsically(sp) ready to have sex. its not about maturity at all.
OK, point taken. I think that's the main reason for the age of consent actually, to help convictions in child abuse trials, it's not really got much to do with teenage pregnancies or whatever at all. It used to be 13 in the nineteenth century, but was changed to stop child prostitution, which was a big problem then.
I often get upset about it, not because of not having had sex, but because no one's ever liked me "like that".
I think i must be an exception then. I'm 15 (16 in 3 months). I've been with my boy for 5 months. We haven't slept together - but we've done pretty much everything else. It's not for this reason I consider are relationship to be "long-term". It's because we are best friends too and that gives us a depth to our relationship that most younger people don't have
Dissect me?
Ask urself the question - Y's ur BF so ugly?
Cos I dissected him, Might av done a good job but I did in yr7 and really messed him up. SOS