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I hate Christmas......
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I hate Christmas,for numerous reasons:
- Why is 'spending time with family' important? I see at least ONE member of my family practically EVERYDAY!!!! I don't especially need to see them at that time.
- Giving schmiving. The whole notion of 'giving' at Christmas is just an attempt to misinform children. I'm glad I've seen that I was misguided when I was younger.
- Seeing that society is secular, why should a Christian festival MATTER!!
- Overeating at Christmas is folly. Shit, I can eat turkey ANY TIME OF THE MOTHERFUCKING YEAR!!! Why is eating it on December 25th of any consequence?
- Why is 'spending time with family' important? I see at least ONE member of my family practically EVERYDAY!!!! I don't especially need to see them at that time.
- Giving schmiving. The whole notion of 'giving' at Christmas is just an attempt to misinform children. I'm glad I've seen that I was misguided when I was younger.
- Seeing that society is secular, why should a Christian festival MATTER!!
- Overeating at Christmas is folly. Shit, I can eat turkey ANY TIME OF THE MOTHERFUCKING YEAR!!! Why is eating it on December 25th of any consequence?
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Yes there is a lot of hype of Xmas these days which annoys me no end, and it is ruining the whole concept of Christmas, but hey hum thats life and as we live in a world which is out to make money, times like Christmas will be made as commercial as possible.
you ask why is spending time with family so important??? For god's sake if everyone had that oppinion the world wouldn't have any families that stayed together as a happy union. Family should be the most important thing to you. They are the people who will always be there for you and look after you when things go wrong. But that will fall away if you don't spend time with them. They won't be as close and supportive. But hey it's your life....just don't come running to us when everything goes wrong and you have no one there for you.
Pfft. That's just misguided poppycock fed to schoolchildren.
It isn't significantly, just that as we get a holiday it allows us to spend more time together. Plus the giving means people have to meet and see each other. Even if it's just once a year, for more distant relatives its better than never.
I'm not even go into the religious reasons with you because it isn't worth the shit I'll get afterwards.
So I'm just a misguided school child am I??? hmm....back to the old insults then I see. :rolleyes:
No, I don't know you so I cannot comment. I believe that the shit taught in schools is bollocks. End of story.
There is far too much emphasis on presents and 'spashing out', with pressure being put on families to celebrate Christmas in a way they cannot afford to, getting themselves into a lot of debt whilst 'celebrating' something the vast majority of them don't believe in (my family is unfortunately one of them).
I am not Christian, or religious in any way, but I do believe in Jesus, not in the sense that he was the son of God, but that he was a great man who did a lot of good things. That would be my basis for any Christmas celebration.
The commercial Xmas is ruining the nature and, dare I say it, 'spirit' of Christmas, and this is a shame. That is the reason I have plans this year to go to York and abstain from the 'festivities' this year.
The "spirit" of Christmas is about thinking about other people, not being selfish. Hence I can understand why you don't like it.
Rather have every day the same onenats?
the thing i have never understood, is why christmas? why wasn't another holiday around the december time over exegerated by the card companies? there are un-religious people who celebrate christmas so freely so why aren't these same people celebrating something say... haunuka(sp?) or something just as joyously?
Well I like it because I don't spend enough time with my family
We don't give expensive gifts..it is rediculous how much people spend on their kids.
Some people celebrate yule, some like to celebrate the pagan aspect, for others it's just fun.
We never have turkey...Some traditions I can do without..
Perhaps its just YOUR kind of Christmas you don't like!!