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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I need some help, I'm hopeing somone can help me. Let's see recentlly me and my boyfriend went on a trip well I've been on the pill for a long time now, Well we had unprotected sex, He didn't get off and he quit if he was about to so there for he pulled out, So do you think there is any chance I can get pregnet? Please I really need help about this.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you are on the pill and tou've been taking them correctly i don't think you can be pregnant.

    But i'm not really sure on that sort of thing.

    Everything about you is how i want to be.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jeffrey:
    If you are on the pill and tou've been taking them correctly i don't think you can be pregnant.

    But i'm not really sure on that sort of thing.

    Thank you for your help I really hope your right.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yep, providing u havent missed a pill or two and have been taking it as u r meant to then its highley unlikely u r pregnant.
    Is there any reason u asked other than the fact u started only using the pill as contrcaeption? U havent got any symptoms or anything or have u? If not then Im sure u r fine and its good that u r carefull <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't missed any pill's or anything I take them regular like i'm suppose to. He didn't get off inside of me he stoped before he did and then pulled out. Are you sure that I can't be pregnet I'm really worried I know for now on that I am going to use a condom no matter how bad I don't like it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm, i dont think u really seem clued up about the pill, it is a form of contraception like condoms most people use condoms aswell 2 protect them selves from STI's. i have been on the pill 4 about 1 year and i hardly ever use condoms. i think it is highly unlikely that u r pregnant, dont worry <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you , I"m starting to think that i'm not I just got really worried.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Amber i'm like you. I have to use both, if not i freak out!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there is no reason to worry. ive been on the pill for 8 months now and ive had unprotected sex wiht my b/f for ages. worry not. seriously, u wont be pregnant. thats the point of the pill.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Q. What's the difference between sin and shame?

    A. It is a sin to put it in, but it's a shame to pull it out.

    No u should be fine dont worry at all. But if by some chance u miss or r late 4 your thing get a preg tester and check!





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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you will be fine sweety as long as you havent missed as i think lol said b4 so fear not girlie you will b fine!!!



    i can only be nice to 1 person a day today is not your day tommorow isnt looking good either!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Amber

    We have the facts about contraceptive pills here: http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/combined_pill.html http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/progestogen_only_pill.html
    The pill can be made less effective by stomach upsets and certain medications. It is usually very effective if you take it exactly according to the instructions on the packet, but accidents occasionally happen.

    It is a good idea to use condoms as well because they can help to protect you from sexually transmitted infections: http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/condoms.html http://www.thesite.org/sex/sexual_health/

    Having unprotected penetrative sex can spread sexually transmitted diseases and cause pregnancy EVEN IF THE MAN PULLS OUT BEFORE HE EJACULATES (cums/gets off). It is risky behaviour. It is definitely not part of safer sex.

    I'm not sure how long ago you had unprotected sex, but to put your mind totally at rest you should think about going to a clinic and asking the nurse or doctor about what your options are. http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/emergency_contraception.html http://www.thesite.org/sex/pregnancy/so_you_think_youre_pregnant.html

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I know they have that thing about the pill but Ill be damn if i'm gonna kill a baby. If I am pregnet then that's just a mistake I made but I wouldn't throw the baby out I'd love it and take care of it no matter how hard it would take. My boyfriend said that' if I am then he's gonna be right there with me to support me. I haven't missed a peirod yet I still have another week or soo before i'll know.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by amber1_25247:
    Yeah I know they have that thing about the pill but Ill be damn if i'm gonna kill a baby. If I am pregnet then that's just a mistake I made but I wouldn't throw the baby out I'd love it and take care of it no matter how hard it would take. My boyfriend said that' if I am then he's gonna be right there with me to support me. I haven't missed a peirod yet I still have another week or soo before i'll know.

    Its not throwing the baby out at all although u may see it like that. A few people might be sensitive to it being said like that though and everyone has oppinions and stuff on the topic of abortion, everyone is intitled to their oppinion but I just wanted to step in incase some people got upset at the way u put it in your psot...there have been a couple of very heated debates on this one b4 and I just get worried people r gonna get upset again... hopefully not though.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wasn't meaning it in a mean way ,, I was just saying I don't see that as in right. I mean in some cases yes that's right but in people that have sex with there parners and get pregnet they should deal with what comes but then again in cases there aren't money and thing's like that I see that as in yes. I don't really know but I would never kill a child inside of me. Children are a gift from god even if they are a mistake. I know that I myself should be more careful and trust me I am going to be. Right now i'm just praying that i'm not pregnet. So please everyone just pray for me. Sorry if my last message upset anyone.

  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    the emergency contraceptive does not abort a baby, it merely makes the conditions inside the uterus unfriendly for a foetus to develop.... so even if fertilisation does occur, the embryo doesnt implant in the lining of the uterus, and thats it really. no abortions involved. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know but still if I am pregnet then Iwill just have to live with my mistakes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    AMBER, the pill is there so you don't get pregnant, did the doctor not tell you that????? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't went to the doctor yet coz I don't know if im pregent or not. Plus I talked to my boyfriend about the whole thing and he said if I am then i'm going to have it not do anything about it. Plus it's to late for the pill.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But you said you was already on the pill!!!! Are you on the pill or not??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The morning after pill?

    Never piss into the wind!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/cool7.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok this is geting a bit confusing now or maybe thats just me lmfao. It seems u r really panicking about this and there is no need....there is not much of a chance u r pregnant if u were on the pill... I really dont get why u r worrying so much?
    Ofcourse, it is good that u r worrying and that u take good care not to get pregnant but I dont think u need to get too in a state bout it coz its not likely at all that u r pregnant!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    YES I AM ON THE PILL HAVE BEEN FOR 8 MONTHS NOW. THE REASON I'M WORRYING SO MUCH I GUESS IT'S JUST NATURAL TO WORRY. I'M SURE MAYBE THAT I'M NOT BUT I'M JUST REALLY SCARED.
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