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am i in love? and if so, WHO WITH??
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Ok, my story goes back about 1 month, so its been a bit of a rollercoaster....
One month ago, I found that I had feelings for a girl called Aysha, and I thought we would be together somehow. About a fortnight later somebody told her and she said that although she was flattered she didnt want a boyfriend at the moment. I respected that. I think she expected me to be like completely obsessed tho, cos she was always staring and kept sending envoys (4 friends) to tell me to stop staring at her and if i really fancied her. The last time i said i werent staring at her and i do still fancy her. But recently, ive been noticing this other girl, Laura, a lot more. She was originally really nice to me, and even gave me a back rub when she was passing (i was leant over table sorta). I thought this was bad, until someone told me it was good as im getting over 1st girl. I still stayed a bit open, not devoting my heart, and guess what? she started going out with a guy (arsehole) next day. Over half term i found out she had dumped him, but the girl (louise) who i have been confiding in all this time has been really supportive and has been really nice to me. I think i may be falling for her as well, though we are a lot more like friends, so maybe i am falling in love but sort of pletonic love (i feel i can tell her anything). So now i am left with an insecure girl who thinks im obsessed, one girl who just went through a breakup who i think i have feelings for, and one girl who has been a great friend and aide throughout this and has brought me and her closer (but how close) so i am wondering. What am i to do?
This must sound completely normal for some peeps, it is a bit of a rollercoaster, i know, but i think that Laura may have other people interested in her as well. Wonder what i can do....
One month ago, I found that I had feelings for a girl called Aysha, and I thought we would be together somehow. About a fortnight later somebody told her and she said that although she was flattered she didnt want a boyfriend at the moment. I respected that. I think she expected me to be like completely obsessed tho, cos she was always staring and kept sending envoys (4 friends) to tell me to stop staring at her and if i really fancied her. The last time i said i werent staring at her and i do still fancy her. But recently, ive been noticing this other girl, Laura, a lot more. She was originally really nice to me, and even gave me a back rub when she was passing (i was leant over table sorta). I thought this was bad, until someone told me it was good as im getting over 1st girl. I still stayed a bit open, not devoting my heart, and guess what? she started going out with a guy (arsehole) next day. Over half term i found out she had dumped him, but the girl (louise) who i have been confiding in all this time has been really supportive and has been really nice to me. I think i may be falling for her as well, though we are a lot more like friends, so maybe i am falling in love but sort of pletonic love (i feel i can tell her anything). So now i am left with an insecure girl who thinks im obsessed, one girl who just went through a breakup who i think i have feelings for, and one girl who has been a great friend and aide throughout this and has brought me and her closer (but how close) so i am wondering. What am i to do?
This must sound completely normal for some peeps, it is a bit of a rollercoaster, i know, but i think that Laura may have other people interested in her as well. Wonder what i can do....
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good luck!
luv from
*sxy bunny grl*xxx
my sisters called laura as well
i need to get this girl to like me (but if i can read the signals ok then i think she already does!)
anyway, comment if you will, comment if you wont, it is up to you..
Anyway, just get really friendly with Laura, or whoever you finally choose, and then take it from there. Don't neglect the other girls though, or lose their friendship. i agree that it may be best to avoid Aysha, she sounds like a bit of a bitch who would love to boys worshipping her just to make her feel good, and so that she can hurt them. But i may be wrong
Good Luck
Im pretty sure she returns my feelings but im not sure, and hey, if we go even if nothing happens we would still have had a good time. Everything seems to be going well for me.
(I dont want to be like an egotistical maniac but 5 girls in 3 days have said i look nice/cool/cute - nobody else has ever said this about me. Perhaps its my new haircut?)