Mostly girls - What do you think about your boy looking @ porn?

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Hey everyone

I have been wondering about this for a while. It pisses me off because my boyfriend denies looking at it, I just wish that he would be straight up. Perhaps, he is trying to protect me, because he may worry that I will get insecure.
Does this make me any less attractive to him? Is it something that I dont give him? whats the deal??

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I think it has it's time and place.
It can be enjoyed by both parties if you want it to but if you get on his case about it he will hide it from you more then it will esculate to a bigger problem.

Explain to him that you dont mind him using it, and he dosent have to hide it from you then he may be a bit more comfortable about it. But be aware not to embarress him otherwise it may make thing's worse.

I'd say tred carefully or let him walk in on you reading his mag's and getting busy that made one of my ex's very comfortable.:)

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How do you know he isn't telling the truth? My boyf doesnt look at porn and even if he did thats up to him, but I prefer him looking at me instead

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i dont think my bf looks at it, but maybe he does, even if he does it wouldnt bother me. Up to him what he does and like angelbabe said..rather he looked at me

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I'm of the "out of sight out of mind" school on this one. I know where my man keeps his stash (I stumbled upon it whilst looking for something else), but I wouldn't rumage through it & he doesn't shove it in my face (so to speak). And I figure, as he lives quite a distance away from me, I'd rather he occupy himself with pictures of other women, than actual other women.

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We tend to look it at together rather than him on his own, I dont see the big deal. Like KinkyRed said, It's either that or another woman, I know what I'd prefer.

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I'm totally open minded. Don't mind porn and watch video's with boyfriend. Mags would piss me off a bit but videos - no probs

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Originally posted by TheMistress
I'm totally open minded. Don't mind porn and watch video's with boyfriend. Mags would piss me off a bit but videos - no probs

Why would mags piss you off but not videos?

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my man never looks at prom he says he does need it when he has me!!! o god i'm i being very naive for beleiving him???

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Originally posted by Lyndsay
my man never looks at prom he says he does need it when he has me!!! o god i'm i being very naive for beleiving him???

erm, yeah.

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I know my boyf watches porn on tv and has videos but it doesn't bother me. He can do whatever he wants. Like other people have said, watching it on tv is better than doing it with another woman

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Why would mags piss you off but not videos?

Only because if he always bought mags when he sees me like every day, I'd be a bit worried. Videos are fine because he only has a few and brings them round to share. I don't actually mind mags for myself though! haha

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dont care, I think it's funny and I like it too.

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For most men looking at porn is just a natural and healthy outlet and indicates a normal sex drive. It only becomes a problem when someone is obsessed to the point where the only way they can enjoy sex is through the use of porn first as stimuli. It's like anything else, too much can lead to an unhealthy addiction.

Your guy can think you are the hottest and sexiest thing on two legs yet still have an urge to look at porn, so don't take it personally. There is nothing wrong with either of you. It's just the normal male need to look at naked bodies in sultry poses.

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Porn is fine, but id much rather we looked at it together. like we do:o

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i really don't care if they look at porn, it is their life and why should somebody be interfearing in something they enjoy

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Thanks everyone for your imput, I guess it really doesnt matter how attractive you are or how good your sex life is it doesnt matter, I guess curiosity gets the better of people, and as long as that isnt sleeping with someone else, who cares right?:rolleyes:

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Originally posted by angelbabe
How do you know he isn't telling the truth? My boyf doesnt look at porn and even if he did thats up to him, but I prefer him looking at me instead

www.angelbabes.com

:chin:



greenfields.

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I look at porn WITH my girlfriend..lol.

Gives her dirty ideas Muwahahhaa.

Phil

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Porn gotta love!
What is a relationship only the makings of a porno!
except maybe with the odd emotions here or there!

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my bf is exactly the same, i know he watches it but yet he denies it, y i dnt know the way i c it if their gonna watch it then at least own up 2it!!!!!! it really bugs me.

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I think that my boy looks at it on the net on his lap top. But yeah I think that they think that they are 'protecting' us as such! But it does annoy me heaps, that he wont admit it.:rolleyes:

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Originally posted by pitchblack
I think that my boy looks at it on the net on his lap top. But yeah I think that they think that they are 'protecting' us as such! But it does annoy me heaps, that he wont admit it.:rolleyes:

i think he feels that i will be offended by it but i dont really care cos at the end of the day its me that hes with but boys wil be boys, eh!:)

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well excatly, like i dont really want him looking at hot girls. but then again i dont care taht much either. i just feel gutted that perhaps I cant give him everything he needs.

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Originally posted by pitchblack
well excatly, like i dont really want him looking at hot girls. but then again i dont care taht much either. i just feel gutted that perhaps I cant give him everything he needs.

im sure you are giving him all he needs its just blokes like to have something to therselves dnt b offended he probably doesnt mean any harm by it. i think even the guys that say they dnt look at it to their girlfreinds are lyin its natural for them i think. hope i helped!

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Thanks you are a sweet heart. I dont know why it makes me so unsecure. I guess that I am.

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Originally posted by pitchblack
Thanks you are a sweet heart. I dont know why it makes me so unsecure. I guess that I am.

dont be hard on yourself, try not to worry bout it. take care x:)

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Yeah I def. need to get over it. Thanks again!

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I'd say don't worry about it. It's like some blokes, and some girls, won't admit to masturbating.
I think it's normal, and healthy to be interested in looking at some porn, unless it becomes a bit of an obsession.

Mr_Wobble

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Originally posted by button_123
dont be hard on yourself, try not to worry bout it. take care x:)

Mutual admiration society !

Look get a porno , finger yourselves and let b/f walk in on you !

Voila ! Problem solved !

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I know my boyf looks at it occasionaly on the net, and it only bothered me when he denied it! If he actually went out and spent money on porn I'd be a bit pissed off, but since it's just around the net I don't really mind.....like some other's said it's better than other stuff he could be up to!!