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what shall i do? forget her of woo her
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i met the most amazing girl on holiday and i cant get her out my mind. i talk to her virtually every night for about 2 hours and then i find it hard to get to sleep cause i cant stop thinking about her. we flirt loads on the phone like what we want to do to each other and i love it. we did everything really apart from sex and i want her! she lioves in wales and i love in london. do u think it is worth me going to visit her? she had a boyfriend when w were on holiday and she phoned me up one day saying that she broke up with her boyfriend, was i suppose to congratulate her or was that a come and get me sought of thing. is it worth me getting involved with her or just stupid, im considering going to wales at university so i can see her! but then what happens if we break up! she is bloody sexy so is it just a lust thing, im not sure but i know she is the girl i want to lose my virginity with. WHAT DO I DO?!?!
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If she feels as strongly as you do [lust or not] then it's definitely worth suggesting the two of you meeting up. See what she thinks about coming london? If she's just as enthusiastic [or she might well have a reasonable excuse!] then forgetting her would be a big mistake! It sounds as if it's a bit more than lust though, I mean, you can find the whole package sexy sometimes! If you really can't stop thinking about her then tell her, providing you think she's into you just as much <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
If you don't think it's mutual [but 2 hours on the phone every night sounds like it is] then don't call her as much, and try and find another girl who preferably lives near to you. Just don't go sleeping with her until you're sure about Ms.Holiday! Good luck and let us know what happens <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
Going to university in Wales sounds like a good option if you're going there next year, just make sure she's not the only reason. Love or lust? You're the only one who can answer that, cause if its just her body then commiting yourself for 3 years could be the wrong decision.
Having said that, if you talk to her for hours every night, it sounds like something that could last. How long have you felt like this about her, months or years?