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Drunk and Stupid
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Erm... I feel so ashamed. Last night I got drunk, not really drunk but I had enough to make last night a blurry memory but I was really stupid and slashed my wrist, scared the shit out of one of my friends and I think argued with another:S I've apologised but I'm still worried about what I said and I keep doing it and I don't know what to do, everytime I apologise to my friends and say Sorry I was drunk but thats still doesn't change what I've said and seeing as I cant remember it really worries me:( All I can remember is lying on my bed with a razor blade, tissues, trying stop getting blood anywhere. I always get even more depressed than normal and it really sux because I tend to do really stupid things, I don't know what to do because I really can't stand doctors:S I mean REALLY can't stand them, any ideas would be welcomed
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Go visit the doctors as they could be some help. Sometimes they aren't but there are more options I'm sure. The doctor is the best one to see as a first step.
I've been pretty similar to you. It will probably happen again but I went to the doctors. Just try it. You may not be able to stand doctors but they may be able to help you and if they don't then it's over and you try the next thing.
If you ever want to talk then PM, email or chat to me on msn. If you want to add me then just PM me and I'll give you my hotmail thing.
Look after yourself. x
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Don't look at going to the doctor as a negative thing. They may be able to help you. Try to put a positive spin on it no matter how hard that may be.
Try to make an appointment soon, hun.
Let me know how everything goes and if you need anyone to talk to I am always here.
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Why not ask for a different doctor?
No way to get there other than parents
If the doctor said I had to go see a counsellor ( which i think they might considering i slashd my wrist a couple times) then they would have to knw. Or if the gave me pills, I'd have to tell my parents. And the nurses at the surgery are friendly with my mum meaning they would probably say something even if they didnt mean to. Do you see what i'm saying? They would have to know, drunken suicide attempts wouldn't be taken lightly and the doctor would probably insist my parents knew:(
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The nurses etc are forbidden from telling your parents I'm sure. Patient confidentiallity means they cant say a word. My dad phoned my doctor and when I went to see him of my own accord the doctor reminded me he isn't allowed to say a word to my parents. The doctor can't insist you tell them. He can suggest it but he can't make you. It is ultimately up to you.
It probably would be a good idea to tell your parents at some point though. They would be worried but probably would want know what you are doing and help in some way.
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