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Simple question - When meeting a new partner, and after a few dates, do you have an official "Will you be my girlfriend/boyfriend?" routine???
Just felt like asking as it turns out quite a few people I know seem to think you HAVE to do this, yet all my relationships from the past (and even present) have just naturally evolved into a boyfriend/girlfriend setup without either of us officially saying it..
It seems to me like something you would do at school, not something that 2 grown adults would need to say?
What do you all think? (if that made sense)
Just felt like asking as it turns out quite a few people I know seem to think you HAVE to do this, yet all my relationships from the past (and even present) have just naturally evolved into a boyfriend/girlfriend setup without either of us officially saying it..
It seems to me like something you would do at school, not something that 2 grown adults would need to say?
What do you all think? (if that made sense)
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If your unsure as to whether you are a 'couple' as such then then best and most romantic way to find out is to declare your feelings over a meal, bottle,and smoke.
However I do agree with you and I think you just 'know', unspoken agreement.
This is correct, something always has to be said...of course if you say I love you then its taken as read.
Needless to say I rather impolitely refused her kind offer.
Poor girl, however will she get over my cruel rejection?