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Advice for Women

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I hope this doesnt offend anyone, but I have to confess that I am a little sick of magazines portraying men as the inadequate sexual partner and writing articles on how they can improve.

It is true that men find it easier to reach orgasm than women but that isnt a testimony to your expertise, its a sad fact of our genetics. There is such a thing as a good and bad orgasm. Trust me, after all the bad or mediocre sex with my exs and now utterly amazing sex with my girlfriend, I should know.

I have to say that the women that seem to post on this discussion board do however tend to genuinly be conscious of how to please men. Pass this on to your friends girls.

Perhaps if there were more articles on where women went wrong, they wouldnt feel so in the dark and men wouldnt feel so under pressure.

So to the guys - post what tickles your fantasy and to the women - ask away?

NB. Men, that doesnt mean you have to give up trying, just that both parties have to live and learn.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Actually there are lots of articles on thesite about how crappy women should buck their ideas, including how to perform fellatio whilst cleaning a floor. Bloody amazing <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Some women clean the floor? Damn, she really was a bad one! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that girls come alot more easier than guys I was with my g/f last night and we had loads of foreplay she had 2 orgasms whilst I had only one.. but anyways yea there are lots of articles about about men to improve sex life but huhh who needs them lol just kiding!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wasnt refering to this site, as I said women that seem to come here do seem genuinly concerned, I was referring to the surplus of magazines.

    As for having a gf that comes easier than you, all I can say is either you must be unusually difficult or she must be unusually - well - less difficult.

    It is a sad state that magazines have ridiculed the male performance but have been slow to do so of women. I think this is changing. Good for the publishers!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Rego Mentem:
    <STRONG>I wasnt refering to this site, as I said women that seem to come here do seem genuinly concerned, I was referring to the surplus of magazines.

    As for having a gf that comes easier than you, all I can say is either you must be unusually difficult or she must be unusually - well - less difficult.

    It is a sad state that magazines have ridiculed the male performance but have been slow to do so of women. I think this is changing. Good for the publishers!</STRONG>

    Youre paranoid. My gf comes well, all the magazines say is how to get the bloke to touch the bits that girls want touching. Its unfair to slag off women for wanting good sex when a large amount of men have no idea what the clitoris is, ffs!

    But, yeah, women should do more than lie on their backs and let the men do the work. At LEAST have the tea cooking, and do the ironing at the same time <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    couldn't agree more kermit <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    i think if we conducted some kinda survey, less than 30% of guys would actually know what the clitoris is.

    it's shameful!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Burn*Baby:
    <STRONG>actually know what the clitoris is.

    it's shameful!</STRONG>

    It's the name of the building where the pope lives.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Burn*Baby:
    i think if we conducted some kinda survey, less than 30% of guys would actually know what the clitoris is.

    I know, it's a car. The ford clitoris, cause every c**ts got one!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> i'll get my coat
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *hands Marmite his anorak*

    Ooh, don't forget your mittens!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RNT:
    <STRONG>Let's be honest girls, all u do is lie back and expect the bloke be a stallion in bed.

    On Sex and the City last night (ch4) the blonde girl (can't remember her name) decided to have a lesbian relationship for the first time and didn't have a clue what to do down there. I think that was a good illustration of what people are talking about here.</STRONG>

    lol thats true I watched it myself!! what you think of it lol?? <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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