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Homophobia: i can't believe it still exists!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i was just reading jessy's message 'bout her little crisis. and someone's comments just made me sick. (u know who u are)

it just makes me so angry that there are still people out there who are so judgemental, righteous and almighty.

why are these people concerned with what does not affect them?

why does it matter if someone else is gay?

what's it 2 u, mr.horse?

i know people like this horse, i.e. all his homophobic, bigoted friends, probably are like they are because they are, ultimately, unhappy with themselves.

but this is no excuse.

there is no room for attitudes like this.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah! Get with the program all u phobes out there and that includes you, Horse.

    This is for Horse> What has paedophilia got to do with an 18 year old woman having sex with her m8 and her boyfriend at the same time? I don't really understand what you are trying to say.

    How dare you even associate homosexuality with paedophilia. You are the one who is sick. I was abused as a child and I have enough gay friends who would love to kill my paedophillic uncle for what he did to me. And that is more than what can be said for certain members of my own family who have not supported me through this.

    Live and let live, Horse. What consenting adults decide to do with eachother between the sheets is their thing. Who are you to tell them if it is sick or not.

    There is nothing wrong with what Jessy did, she is just worried because of people like you in society making her think it is wrong. She wasn't used, she enjoyed it.

    Are you sure you have never queried your sexuality. Am I right in thinking that everyone does it at some point in their life whether they actually fulfill their desire or not, even if the thought only lasted for a second?

    Open your mind m8 and stop being such a bigot!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think that people feel threaten by gay people because they r different just as , teenagers at school get bullied if they don't where brand name clothes ,. I my self don't feel this way now , but i use to . Yet now i under stand that ifs thats wot makes the people involed happy let them b happy and live how they want to live.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wanna know something wierd?
    It was homophobia that made me realise I was bi!
    I know it sounds wierd, but a so-called friend of mine spread a rumour around school that I was a lesbian. It made me consider my sexuality a lot more and I spent quite a while soul-searching, and realised that I was also attracted to girls!
    I still don't agree with homophobia though!
    And a sure fire way to tell if someone is a homophobe is to ask them if they know what the letters of the GAP shop stand for.
    GAP stands for Gay And Proud!
    If you tell them, and they say "Eeee, I'm never shopping there again!", then congratulations my friend, you got yourself a real live Homophobe!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    C'est pour mon usage personnel, Officier!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am gonna agree witht the ladies here!

    There is nothing wrong in homosexuality, no I am not gay, nor am I bi, however, I have had thoughts and have queeried my sexuality.

    Homosexuality doesnt please me sexually, but it doesnt disgust me either! If people want to be gay, then they are gay! If they wanna be Bi they are bi. Why should we pass judgement on those of us that are different.

    Horse: What the hell has Paedophilia got to do with homosexuality between two reasonable adults?

    You have probably though about yourself being gay! (or Bi) GwaiMui is right in saying everyone has that thought, at least once!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would just like to say I despise "tail gunners". I think they are sick people and should all be killed to save us the hassle!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BMW, get fucked!
    I can't believe you just said that!

    C'est pour mon usage personnel, Officier!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There seem to have been a lot of homophobic comments posted lately. If the idiots who wrote them are doing it to wind people up - it ain't big and it ain't clever. If they really believe what they're writing - then they scare me a bit. I hoped most people were past that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok, heres my view on homosex. I accept it, I have no problem with it, I don't dump on those who are gay (jeremy spakes the funniest guy i know) but I still think its wrong. Its not what god intended and even though its acceptable it will never be right.
    don't get the wrong idea.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the blood golem speaks

    honestly i don't know whats up with u gay and bisexual people.

    "there is nothing wrong with it"?? of course there is. do any of u understand the term "procreation"? nature made us male and female (excluding asexual organisms) and thats the way it was meant to be. if people start to become attracted to their own sex, we are denying our most fundamental biological goals, which are to "reproduce and to survive".

    so being gay or bisexual is to me a perversion- no... a DEFILEMENT of nature. do u straight people out there realize the numbers of homo/bisexual people out there are increasing? NOT because people are less afraid to step out, its because this gayness syndrome is spreading. and soon the world will fall to this detestable evil

    u may call us homophobic but we will refer to ourselves as "foresightfull"

    i am in no way prejudiced against homosexuality, i know some very nice gay people. to me, a gay person is a normal man who has been INFECTED by this gayness syndrome. let us all who share this opinion unite to purge our world of homosexuality

    u only defend homosexuality so much because u fear prosecution and discrimination. but your helpless thrashings are feeble. bow to the blood golem
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blade thinks that intolerance and discrimination with respect to race, creed, sexuality, class, nationality et al. is unacceptable.

    C'mon U phobes out there, get real and get modern. Think about what you're saying before you say it. Don't just say it because you think it's cool or fashionable.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Homophobia is something that is to my mind as bad as racism, your sexuality is something you can't choose anymore than you can choose you eye colour, its just who you are. I can't believe that there are people out there who think homosexuality is as bad as murder. Please guys, tell me it was a wind-up. Blood Golem has deep psycological promlems, either he believes what he writes, in which case he as a rather special case of ortism, dissmissing anything he can't identify with as wrong, or he is winding us up, in which he should be ignored, as he can't yet apprecheate what he's writing. I'm straight (I think), but I have no promlem with gays, to me its just part of what makes them them. Have I said anything really stupid, or can people see what I'm getting at?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Blood Golem:
    the blood golem speaks

    honestly i don't know whats up with u gay and bisexual people.

    "there is nothing wrong with it"?? of course there is. do any of u understand the term "procreation"? nature made us male and female (excluding asexual organisms) and thats the way it was meant to be. if people start to become attracted to their own sex, we are denying our most fundamental biological goals, which are to "reproduce and to survive".

    so being gay or bisexual is to me a perversion- no... a DEFILEMENT of nature. do u straight people out there realize the numbers of homo/bisexual people out there are increasing? NOT because people are less afraid to step out, its because this gayness syndrome is spreading. and soon the world will fall to this detestable evil

    u may call us homophobic but we will refer to ourselves as "foresightfull"

    i am in no way prejudiced against homosexuality, i know some very nice gay people. to me, a gay person is a normal man who has been INFECTED by this gayness syndrome. let us all who share this opinion unite to purge our world of homosexuality

    u only defend homosexuality so much because u fear prosecution and discrimination. but your helpless thrashings are feeble. bow to the blood golem


    excuse me. but if what u say is true. how come homosexuality exists amongst animals in the wild?

    it IS part of nature.

    and a very effective way of cutting down on our terrible population problem.

    it's people like u who r infected.

    with religious and repressed social bigotry.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HazeyMaryJane, just because it happens, it doesn't mean its part of nature. Some people are born with extra limbs, and weak, frail bodies that die a few days after birth. But did nature intend that? NO

    It's a MISTAKE. A genetic ERROR.

    Whats with this population problem? Its only the cities that are overpopulated there is tons of space in the world. And by the time that fills up, we would already have colonised other planets. There is no need to cut down our population (except in third-world countries.. they cannot support children). But its the developed world that breeds homosexuals, and if god wanted to cut the suffering population, he would have created gays in Bangladesh or something.

    And by the way, Caliph, look at the topic "I suck my friends cock". That should explain what we homophobes worry about.


    "The righteous, shall fall before the wicked... and all of creation will tremble, before the burning standards of hell"
    - Mephisto, Lord of Hatred

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know what all of you mean!!
    Everybody is too judgemental, they think its disgusting when people are gay. There's nothing wrong with it. A lot of the world hates homosexuals, and then a lot more wonder why homos don't come out of the closet. It just sickens me how people can call other people disgusting for something they can't control. If one man finds another man attractive, there's nothing he can do about it, its in his head. He can't control what turns his crank and what doesn't. All these christian people complain about homosexuality and say that it is a sin and that God will condemn them to hell. But if this is the way it works, then why did God create them that way? There is no way possible someone can control their sexuality. End of story.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You've got it apollo! Like I said, you cant conciously control your sexuality (ignore blood golem, he's a sick fucker who's now been chucked off). What's the problem with gays, speak up homophobes, whats wrong with it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I honestly dispise anyone who honestly gives a damn what people get up to in the privicy of their own beds at home.

    I may not want to indulge in homosexuality myself, but I've no objection to anyone else doing whatever the hell they wany with each other.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Quite right lithium! People have no right looking into other peoples private lives
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: support if you are gay.....
    Originally posted by peereducation
    there is a site with forums (just like this and almost as busy) full of gay, lesbian and bi youths at the queer youth alliance, some of u might find it useful , esp if you are confused and want someone to talk to who has gone through what you are going through now. www.crappyspamgetoffourboards.com

    :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What consenting adults do in their home is no one else's business, providing they harm no one else. Two gay men having sex or two lesbians licking clit doesn't harm others. I reckon people have a right to be homophobic but I still don't respect any homophobe's views. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by hazeymaryjane



    excuse me. but if what u say is true. how come homosexuality exists amongst animals in the wild?

    it IS part of nature.

    and a very effective way of cutting down on our terrible population problem.

    it's people like u who r infected.

    with religious and repressed social bigotry.





    yeah lions practise homosexuality.



    they're called gay pirdes! :lol:


    i have no problem with homosexuality. not my cup of tea but hey whatever rocks yer boat.

    by the way ive kissed three blokes full snog stylee. but im not gay.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: support if you are gay.....
    Originally posted by peereducation
    there is a site with forums (just like this and almost as busy) full of gay, lesbian and bi youths at the queer youth alliance, some of u might find it useful , esp if you are confused and want someone to talk to who has gone through what you are going through now.

    Bloody hell! Why raise a dead post from 2000???????
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: support if you are gay.....
    Originally posted by Teagan


    Bloody hell! Why raise a dead post from 2000???????

    He/She is bringing up any thread relating to homosexuality and using it promote their boards.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think the mods will ban "peereducation". How can he/she say their site is nearly as good? It's crap.

    The Site rules! Wooo hoooo!
    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bye bye peereducation, please keep your crap off our boards and do not spam us. And dragging up old out of date posts really pisses the regulars off.
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