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Im suddenly really confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. To begin with we were sort of semi going out. We have now been a couple for quite a while. I have known him for about six months altogether. I sometimes feel that we are almost too serious. Not that i want to go out with other guys...just sometimes its as if we should just be really good friends. I really love him so much, but im not sure how exactly. I dont really want to rush into anything and ruin things. Do you reckon i should say something? If so what? I really dont want to loose him! :eek:
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Don't end up leading him on.
Yep, thats probably a good idea.
You don't seem like the type to mess someone about, but yeah, see how things go.
Don't get me started love is love.
If you don't lust after a guy and feel you require that in a relationship then your answer is clear.
If you do lust after him or you don't require lust in a relationship then again your answer is clear.
What is most important in any relationship is that you understand each other and are working towards a common purpose. You're going to be doing that a hell of a lot more in the next 50 years than having sex.