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first time ....??
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hey,
this post is kind of like the first time where... but this is first time who. See, im a Virgin and i wanna kno what i should do. Should i wait till i find someone i really love to be my frist time, or should i just get drunk and have fun! lol:p
*So im wondering~was ur first-
love? not?
do u reget it? or no...
~*also wat do u ppl think i should do.. should i wait.. or just go party and do whatever!
*Nelly*
this post is kind of like the first time where... but this is first time who. See, im a Virgin and i wanna kno what i should do. Should i wait till i find someone i really love to be my frist time, or should i just get drunk and have fun! lol:p
*So im wondering~was ur first-
love? not?
do u reget it? or no...
~*also wat do u ppl think i should do.. should i wait.. or just go party and do whatever!
*Nelly*
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sorry to lecture! thats not my intention, make your own decision but be prepared! its a lot easier to do it with the person you love and trust.
Although i can only say that i lost mine while in love with the girl, i wouldn't know what it's like if your not in love with them. I'm sure it's better when you are in love. There's an emotional connection not just a physcial one. I've never had a one night stand blah etc. don't know what it's like.
crazyredeyes... u got a really good point!! As a teenage girl, i have been in a lot of situations where when i was with a guy, they would try to have sex with me and i would say no.. but now when they do that, im still gonna say no, but im gonna think of what u said, becuase it means a lot!!!! thanx!!:D
But I don't regret it, he was a sweet guy and it was quite fun - and how many German girls can say they've lost their virginity to a white Zimbabwean guy from London? lol
I never wanted to wait for "Mr. Right" or the real love - I don't believe in this. And I think the first time isn't really that special. Life's to short to waist time.
You may be ready for sex, but make sure it's not with someone you might end up regretting later. I had been in many situations like you said where they would want to have sex(and me too!), but I would be up front and tell them that I was a virgin and I wasn't going to have sex with them. Some guys understood and others I would never hear from again. The one I lost my virginity to never pressured me to go any further than I wanted to and didn't mind waiting till I was sure I was ready.
Drum
:rolleyes:
Lets try to move beyond the need for having to label someone else's enjoyment of sex, whether they be male or female!
Drum
Drum
Legends or.. Players. But thats normally. Personally i have no respect for male sluts either.
Oh yes, Man Sluts is the word
Drum
Drum you consistently post rude, aggressive, ignorant posts. Are there some unresolved issues here?
Why are you in this forum if its just to insult people's livestyle choices?
Life is too short to waste your time with bad experiences. Find the right moment and the right person. There is no rush.
Not sure what you mean by nowadays. As i recall thats all we had on our minds 20 years ago.
I was 15, he was 24, it certainly wasn't love , I was definately drunk, I considored myself a slut but have definately never regretted it
Is because they were not so "convinced" of doing it? Affraid perhaps?
If they were not drunk, would they have done it anyway?
I think sex should be taken with responsibility and if you are drunk you don't think clearly enough to make such decisions.
And yes, it is a serious decision: if you choose the wrong person or forget to protect yourself you can regret that afterwards.