I have made up my mind!

Former Member

I have decided to go away to University, despite having all of mates, family and Boyfriend local i need to go away. My family have shown great interest (probably cant wait to get rid of me) My friends dont know yet. And my boyfriend will have enough time to do what he likes when he likes so all are happy I am not going to far from home so thats also good. So i have decided in a fortnight when it comes to filling out my forms least i will have the nerves to fill out whats best for me and not everyone else.

Although if the entry requirements are more difficult (waiting for conformation) i will reconsider and go local where i know i can get in and who i have liased with for the last 6 months.

After months of confusion i have finally decided!:D

Former Member

Congratulations on reaching a decision *DEVIL* Hope it all goes well for you kiddo

Former Member

well done for deciding! and well done for doing what is best or you and not everyone else!

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Yay Girlie, about time you put yourself first for a change, go follow those dreams

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Its been really difficult but i came to the descision mainly because my boyfriend has his own life really. he is a football referee (in which iam not really involved in) and soon could be working shift work, i tired of mking the effort to see him and i feel that if i go away he will have to make the effort to see me (if he wants to )
Im fed up of putting him first in everything when it is clearly evident he cant give a damn in what i do and cant be bothered. He has many important things than me (his career which is fine he works nights and weekends as a ref and daytimes as an electrical fitter) How can i stop him the same as how can he stop me. although he has tried i am not having it.
My family are happy enough.

My family are happy and i think they'd rather i did go away. If i do go away which is what seems probable he may respect the time we spend together a little more. :rolleyes:

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Well done *DEVIL* hope all works out well for you!

But does this mean you won't be able to post?:eek:

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Originally posted by Harmless
Well done *DEVIL* hope all works out well for you!

But does this mean you won't be able to post?:eek:

I should think i would have enough time to post. I'd miss you all so much. I think i would miss you all more than my boyfriend!shhhh dont tell him

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You go for it