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What kind of dates do you worry about?
Danny!
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In an ideal world, every date would be fun and exciting, a carefree chance to get to know someone new, or spend time with your partner, and have some fun in the process.
But real life's not always like that. Sometimes the idea of getting to know someone new - wondering how they'll see you, if they'll like you, whether they'll understand you, can feel almost too much.
Other times it might be about the kind of date. Different things can be worrying even if you've known your partner for some time. Does going to a fancy restaurant fill you with dread? Does going to a party together feel like you're too much on show?
Please share your experiences about what kind of dates worry you. It doesn't have to be a massive worry - it's still helpful to share it.
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Generally though I don't date straight away, I like to just be friendly with somebody and meet new people, if I like them and their company, then maybe I'd take it further. Most people don't understand that (even if it's pointed out straight away so there's no confusion), if I say yes to going for a drink or food, it's just because I like drink and food! haha