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Lost our spark
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i really need my help. i hav been saying my gf for over 6 months now and i dont think that we are ready for sex yet. but i also think that we have lost the fun in our relationship. is there anything we can do that isnt sex? we have tried kissing and stuff but that just isnt a fun ne more. thanx 4 any ideas
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Have you tried just taking her out for a romantic meal, or to the theatre? Surprise her with flowers and things, or introduce other things apart from kissing, like touching one another.
She will start to enjoy the relationship less if you don't take care of her sexual needs.
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I will always say that. It is pointless to have underage sex and risk serious trouble. However, if URe both old enough to have sex, and U both know how 2 keep safe, then U should sit down 2gether and tlk about it. It might seem a bit embarrasing at 1st but U will both feel better for it afterwards. Have either of ever had a bad sexual experience B4? If so then this might B the cause of all your worries. Tlk 2 ya g/f and ask her if shes ready 4 sex. If she is then I suggest U tlk about sex, and Y you do/do not want it. I'm sure if URe really meant 4 each other, U will stick 2gether through this, but if ya relationship is gonna split up through lack of sex then I'm sorry, but I just don't think URe meant 2 B. Give it a try. Good luck 4 da future. Much love, Bobbi. XXXXX
If you are having second thoughts you may not be ready to make the jump into a sexual relationship just yet.
Be sure to look at: http://www.thesite.org/sex/sexual_health/ before jumping into anything rashly.
May I suggest paintball!
[This message has been edited by Squinty (edited 29-10-2001).]
Other than that, try to do some more adventurous stuff, women really like it when us men do dangerous macho stuff to impress them. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">