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Mother/Children Separation Anxiety
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Hi, I have a 2 and 3 year old that my ex partner (father) is keeping me from. I have been their primary carer since the day they were born. It is in the hands of the legal system but was hoping someone out there has had some experience of being separated from their children. A mummy who has escaped a domestic violence (mentally abusive) situation/relationship, suffering control of a father using the children as a weapon.The court hearing is Monday morning. If anyone has any particular coping strategies I would be grateful to hear of them. Staying strong. Just want to be with my babies x
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If youve been their primary carer, i dont think the courts will let him keep them away from you
Im not a mother so i can't really help there, but when i was a kid i was taken away from my mother because of her mental health problems and study thing area of things. I know how hard it is to be away from them especially when they're little, but i couldn't imagine the court giving him a soul custody if you've been their carer since birth.
Good luck with the court case and i hope the best decision for your kids is made.
Alfiee
Does he have any reason to keep them away. What is he saying is the reason??