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Panickly, sh, arghh

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Health & Wellbeing
I'm all panicky, can't breathe, want to cut but don't want to relapse into something so unhealthy, really can't do thissss! :(

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey.

    Whats happening? Its good youve posted on here. We're all here for you.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have to move out, give up, don't care any more, couldn't careless what happened to me any more.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How come you have to move out?
    I know you may not feel like it now but there are people who do care about you Sophie.
    I think deep down, you care about yourself too.
    Have you talked to Becki? As I know she supports you :)

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Friend needs space.

    So I've got to look for else to live. No one wants me to move back home but it looks like my only choice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay.. Hmm just trying to think of some suggestions for you.
    Do you have a connexions near you? They offer advice with things like housing.
    Ive seen a few of your threads about how being at home is for you. Can you stay with another family member or friend til you get sorted?




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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I asked my connextions person before and he said he couldn't help :/

    I don't have any family/friends that like me. I'm just be coming one of those really dislikeable people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh right, sorry to hear that. How about your local council?


    Your not disliked.



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi sophieannnn :wave:

    Sorry to hear you are having to find somewhere else to live *hug*

    Is there any other local places you can go to, like the Council maybe?

    purple_rain :heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't even know what I'd say to the council :/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends what kinda support your looking for.

    You could say that you need to move out, but currently dont have anywhere to move into it. Do they have any suggestions? Something like that.

    Im not to sure to much about financial. Could be worth a chat with them.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe i should just bring my plan closer... hmmm might go out for a walk and end up places, sounds a plan.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you go to college? If you do the student services maybe able to help you if you explain to them the situation.

    ClaireStephanie has got some good pointers there which could help, it might be worth a try?

    purple_rain
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nope, I'm too stupid for college.
    Locking self in room for a few days, will phone Becki and tell her I need help finding somewhere to live...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's a good idea to give Becki a call as she may find local services who can help and support you to find somewhere to live :heart:

    We are here to support you as well *hug*

    purple_rain
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you :heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry I missed the rest of the replies.
    How are you feeling about things today Sophie?
    I agree with what purple_rain has said, about speaking to social services and Becki :)


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dead. Brain hurts, skipping food, don't care. Need to hide again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am sorry to hear that. *hug*

    It is good that you are getting your emotions out by posting on the boards. Have you managed to speak to Becki about how you are feeling at all? I mean the current stuff, like what you have been posting on here.

    I know how the hiding part feels, sometimes when I am really down, I turn my phone of and just sleep. If it helps and it's safe :)

    Please take care Sophie, people care about you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah, I stayed in bed, hid, and punished myself. Probs why head hurts.
    Will wait til next week when I see her... I'm sure she can help
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    ReenaReena Posts: 1,375 Wise Owl
    Is there anything like emergency housing available in your area? xx *hug*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *hug*

    That doesn't sound to good Sophie. Is Becki part of an emergency crisis team?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah Tracy, Angie, and Jane are though, don't want to phone them, I have til 9pm if I feel real bad though...

    And not too sure Reena x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What about texting the Samaritans, I know they have helped you in the past, just a suggestion.

    I am not to sure I am the best to be giving advice, cos I am not feeling to good myself, and not in the best head space.

    But your not alone in this, people do care about you.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey sophieannn

    I'm not surprised you're feeling low if you're being forced to move out, it's a really stressful situation, especially if you don't want to go back home.

    But you might have more options than you think - which is why you should defo speak to your support workers as soon as you can.

    I've just had a look at TheSite's article about homelessness and it says:

    "If you live in England, Wales and Northern Ireland contact your local council's housing department or housing executive. Councils have duties to help homeless people immediately but the amount of help they offer depends on your particular circumstances."

    Take a read of that article to give you a quick, simple overview about homelessness.

    Shelter is also a great place to turn to for advice. It has reams of info on its website, including info about emergency housing. Here is the link to its homelessness section, but it might be a bit overwhelming as there's loads of info to wade through. They also have a freephone helpline - maybe it would be better to give them a call in the first instance so you can tell them about your situation and they could tell you where you stand? Tel: 0808 800 4444

    Hopefully some of this will help to reassure you a bit that you should have other options available to you than moving home.

    *hug*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you lots, Spanner, I will give them a try, and see what I can do.

    Really appreciate all your help *hug*
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