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Suicide cross my mind sometimes, it's like my mind is pointing to that direction. it's like s/h isn't good enough.
Don't know what to do anymore :crying: i am really fed up.:(
Don't know what to do anymore :crying: i am really fed up.:(
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heyy,
well done for posting on here???
dont give up u mean a lot to everyone. have u tryed talking to people about being fed up it might help
have u tryed speakin to the samaritans
http://www.samaritans.org/
u could try doing things that u enjoy doing to try and take ur mind of things i do that sometimes.
here a list of a few ideas u could do.
1. reading
2. going for a walk
3. watching tv/ dvd
4. be around someone so ur not onur own
5. spend time with ur famliey
6 maybe writeing things down
here a bit of info about feeling down and Suicide
http://www.thesite.org/healthandwellbeing/mentalhealth/depression/feelingsuicidal
keep posting we are here for u
if u feel up to u could join us in chat tonight
http://vbulletin.thesite.org/showthread.php/129784-Fancy-a-chat
hopes this helps
hugs *hug*
may i ask how old u are???
try speaking to the samatians
email: jo@samaritans.org
phone free: 116123
phone: 08457 90 90 90
text num: 07725909090
have a look at this website it might be useful
http://www.recoveryhope4all.com/suicidal.html
I do some of those things you suggested sometimes to try and not think but sometimes it doesn't work
I might join the chat.
I tried before talking to them but it was for nothing. It's a little bit more complicating
I'm 18 years old.
Heather has offered some great advice already, but I just wanted to add that many support services can be contacted via email, so it shouldn't matter if you're not in the UK. For example, the Samaritans has an email service - here are the details:
http://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us
It's not easy admitting to these kind of feelings, so well done for posting, I hope it helps to come here and talk, we're here for you *hug*
Hey Pink girl, I remember you saying you were in Malta so I found this. When was the last time you tried to talk with a family doctor, or specialist care unit for these issues you have?
heyy
well done for psiting ur doing really well
i just spoken tothem they said that u can phone them or email them
i got a nother website if u ould like to thry them. but they onley open mon-wed it called youth2 youth they really are herlpful i use them and they are really helpful. they will help u with enything.
you can
phone
online
email
http://www.youth2youth.co.uk/
u could phone childline on 080011111
or inbox them or 1-1 chat online
http://www.childline.org.uk/pages/home.aspx
keep posting
Hi Fiend, it was about one year ago when my parents took me to their doctor because i cut my arm and that's when they found out that i s/h but he told them that i was doing it because i wanted attention, and he sent me to a specialist but after a few times i stopped from going because i was still feeling the same way and because of money problems.
Thanks spanner
Could you explain to me the way the health system works in Malta? I thought Malta enjoyed universal healthcare as in the UK. So money problems wouldn't have struck me as being an issue.
It's worth bearing in mind that improvements, even when seeing a specialist, can take a long time, and if you can find a way to persist in getting some help with the way you're feeling it can make the world of difference.
Than there are the Appogg (the site that you gave me) the government take care of the place and if you use their service you don't pay. At least that's how i think they work
I never used their services so i don't know how they work very much.
I have sent an email to the Appogg ( the website that you gave me) now i have to wait and see if they will respond my email.
No one cares about me. I really hate this life. i really hate myself and my stupid and boring life
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What do i have wrong ??
Do they feel ashamed to be seen with me
I already feel ashamed to even go out of the house
How are you doing today? Sounds as though things have been quiet difficult for you over the last couple of days, but you've taken a massive step reaching out to the support on here, you should be proud of yourself, I haven't read your whole thread, rather, the first one, and the last few!
You took a massive step messaging Appogg help, well done, I'm glad they were able to respond, how do you feel about there response? *hug*
Sorry to hear you are feeling lonely, you can always drop me a PM if you need a random chatter with someone, always up for a random chat! You seem like an amazing person to chat to and get to know to, I'm glad we've met and that you are here, I know you don't see it right now, but you are a very important person!
I'm also sorry to hear about the girls in your class, I can imagine how difficult that must be for you, but ignoring someone, can be a form of bullying, have you ever checked out CyberMentors, if you are ages between 11-18, they are an anti-bullying support website, who deal with a varied amount of issues and also have trained cousellors, as well as young people who are your age. Would you check that out for me?
Have you ever spoken to your GP about your anxiety and fears about going out, maybe they could put you through to a therapist, so you have that someone to talk to, who would be able to offer more support, and be able to work with you on your self esteem. Massive *hug*'s to you!
Well done for reaching out for support, you should be proud of youself, do keep us updated on how things are going for you Pink Girl
Angel
Today i'm better than other days. I went to a dogs shelter where i do volunteer work so i guess i was distracted from other stuff.
They gave me a phone number and a email of someone who can help me with my s/h and depression. Though i'm finding it difficult to call them. I get really nervous and what do i say anyway
I'm 18 years old and i promise you that i will check out the website.
I spoke to my family doctor but i don't like him. when i had to check out one of my cuts because it was bad he sent me to a therapist right away, he didn't even talk to me. Anyway i didn't like her so after a few times i stopped seeing her.
Again thanks for your help. I'm glad to feel safe here.
You might hate your life at the moment, there are so many things to hate about life, but we all feel like that sometimes. You have a knock and it feels like the Earth is crumbling beneath you, and you feel there is no way out even if you try. But I found there is always something you can do.
Like I said in the PM, try not to let it worry you tonight. xx *hug*
Do i even deserve help
I am feeling really nervous and i don't thing that i don't know if i'm going to keep contact with them
Something is telling me to go and something else is telling me not to go.
I really hate myself.
I really hate this life!!!!!:banghead:
Hope you are okay. Well done for posting and reaching out for support. You should be very proud of yourself.
I wont repeat all the fab advice you have received so far. But just want you to know. You do deserve the help and support everyone does deserve to be happy.
Do you know about the chat room on here? Its a good place to get peer to peer support or even just a distraction chat.
Like **Angel** has said you can always PM her. You can PM me if you ever want a chatter too
Take care of yourself.
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Thanks for your advice and support. Hope that you are doing fine.
It's okay. I have wanted to reply sooner but I haven't been in the right headspace to post a decent reply.
But I seem to be slowly getting better ish
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