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could she be pregnant?
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a few weeks ago i was seeing this girl, and i think she was trying to use me.. i think she was pregnant, just based off of her behavior, but i cant be sure. the signs i saw were: she would get sick, usually in the mornings, sometimes spewing; she was trying to quit smoking and cut back on drinking; sihe didnt like me touching her belly; and she didnt want to be on top during sex. Also, the first time we had sex, i asked if she had a comdom, and straight away she said "just dont finish in me". i had one and used it anyway. but very shortly before we got together i know she was sleeping with someone else (only recently found out). im wondering if he got her pregnant, and she was gonna try to say it's mine because i would be a better father. but her feelings grew very strong towards me, and i think she started feeling guilty for using me like that. she then broke up with me, and wont talk to me anymore. Is this a realistic possibility? or does it sound like i might be reaching for an explanation? I really liked her, and am really hurt that she ended it like this.. i thought everything was going great.. i hope im wrong about this, but there seems to be too much evidence stacked in that direction...
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Basically, you had a short relationship and it's over now. Nothing else actually has anything to do with you.
Romantic relationships are a risk. You put your heart on the line and there is always a chance it could get broken. But if you don't take that risk you may never find the happiness you deserve. Sometimes we have to take the chance and just hope for the best. xx