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Hello,
I am a former cutter, and alcoholic, as well as I suffered from anorexia and belimia when I WAS a teen. Now i am married and have children all seemed well until arguing started happening again. Now I wake up this morning and I have a fingernail mark on my inner wrist (that was my favorite spot to cut along with my ankles) then i have cuts on my fingers as well. i do not know how it happened so i am assuming that i do this while sleeping has anyone ever had this happen before. I have not cut in 7 years so please let me know if there is any advice.:(
I am a former cutter, and alcoholic, as well as I suffered from anorexia and belimia when I WAS a teen. Now i am married and have children all seemed well until arguing started happening again. Now I wake up this morning and I have a fingernail mark on my inner wrist (that was my favorite spot to cut along with my ankles) then i have cuts on my fingers as well. i do not know how it happened so i am assuming that i do this while sleeping has anyone ever had this happen before. I have not cut in 7 years so please let me know if there is any advice.:(
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If you feel the need to go back to self-harm or cut again, you would be best to talk to someone about it. Try not to let it phase you though if everything is fine, treat it as an isolated incident and don't let it panic you. But if it continues to worry you, definitely see someone about it, whether it's your doctor, a friend or your husband or someone else. I hope you feel better soon
Small and big things like getting a job, finding someone to babysit.
You said about missing home, how long have you been away? It can't be easy starting somewhere new. Not knowing many people, or your way around, where the best place is to look for help. -such as job searches and babysitters.
It must be a big worry when your husband threatens to leave, whether he means it or just saying out of the heat of the moment.
Have you gotten to know your neighbors yet? They might have some practical ideas to help, as they know the local area. xx