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should i let him?
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for around 1 month and 1/2 im really fond of him...we havnt done anything yet and every time i go to kiss him (snog) he stops and sais he is a bit sceptical that he is scared!
The thing is...he wants to do things with me! we both agreed that we are not ready for sex but her wants to do other stuff with me. like licking me out! i dunno what to say what does it feel like???
He wont even snog me why is he so confident about the forplay? the thing is...i am really self consious about my body...if i did anything with him...it would have to be in the dark...should i let him???
The thing is...he wants to do things with me! we both agreed that we are not ready for sex but her wants to do other stuff with me. like licking me out! i dunno what to say what does it feel like???
He wont even snog me why is he so confident about the forplay? the thing is...i am really self consious about my body...if i did anything with him...it would have to be in the dark...should i let him???
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You don't say what age u both are but if this guy gets wierd about kissing you then I think you should hold off on going any further till you are both comfortable with kissing. Is it just in public he doesn't wanna snog cos maybe hes just shy? Anyway, if u have the slightest doubt about letting him do anything then u arent ready 4 the next step so hold off 4 a bit! If the guy is worth it then it'll be better 4 u both. Good Luck!
by the sounds of it neither are you are ready to take the step to foreplay yet. If he is having trouble just kissing you I fail to see how he has the confidence to do more... wierd. Also your confidencer is quite low, you mentioned it having to be in the dark. So I have a feeling you would be too nervous at the moment to get full pleasure from any foreplay.
My advice would be to prgress on to the kissing first and see how it goes. As for the being licked out I've heard from girls that if done properly it can be better than having sex.
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Fucking however is another story. I find if I don't fuck these chicks in the mean time, they tend to go elsewhere to satisfy their sexual needs. So as it turns out, I often engage in some of these more sexual activities before moving on to the kissing stage.
Once I explain this, most women are usually pretty understanding.
If you're not happy about it, don't let him do it. A month and a half isn't a long time, in the grand scheme of things, so if he likes you enough he should be prepared to wait. And if he isn't, he's not worth it!
Love 'n' snuggles,
Mags
xx
this isn't a reason!! Everyone wants to keep their geezer happy but i wouldn't not till you gett he kissing bit perfected!.
PINKITTEN - I think you need to be sure if you, and your boyfriends ready for the 'next step' if you are enjoy, and be careful!!
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pinkitten-hows things? did you get ne further? let us know how things are going for u ok?
dont hold ur hand
dont kiss u
wants sex
u say ud "do anyfin for him"...he know this?
make sure ur not bein used, first advice. if the kid cnt kiss u, he sure as hell aint ready to start putting his tongue in the holiest of holies. if he's worried bout technique kissin, why he wanna start licking round ur pussy?
eitha ur boyfriend is one weird fuck, or is usin ya. make sure eitha aint true b4 doing anything
ah no but seriously, if u feel ur ready for wat he wants go 4 it, but think it through. It seems a bit wierd that he doesnt want to kiss. dont do summit ur gonna regret! xx
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ASHO. i think i can help u out there. sounds like me and u need 2 get it on baby ! XXX <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
as long as theres dirty freaky monkey sex, the worlds a great place !
F**K OFF no.1 i'm the site perv
I agree with Kirk ...i feel so dirty now!
All evil needs to thrive is for good men to sit back and do nothing
anyway dump the sick little freak he wants to kiss the wrong lips(bad joke i know) ask him wat his problem is!!!! :P
kirk, beam the fuck up!
xxxx
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