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when is right to say the "L" word
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...Love that is.
Not asking for personal advice as per say but when is the right time to tell someone that you love them?
I find I often say it too soon in relationships, like within the first month or so, and it tends to push some people away (obviously not right for me but anyway)...Is there a right time to tell someone you love them?
Not asking for personal advice as per say but when is the right time to tell someone that you love them?
I find I often say it too soon in relationships, like within the first month or so, and it tends to push some people away (obviously not right for me but anyway)...Is there a right time to tell someone you love them?
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when is a good time in a relationship to move in together?
Is there ever a balance between head and heart?
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In my fairly limited experience normally one person says it before the other person is 100% 'there' so there will never be a perfect time.
There's always 'a' balance, but that doesn't mean it's the right balance. I think when the head and the heart are in agreement then you know you're onto something good. I would worry less about getting the 'perfect balance' and focus more on keeping your heart open to new experiences, whilst being mindful to protect yourself from a) being hurt and b) being taken for a ride.