Positions

Former Member

Hi all.

Its been a while since I've been on here - going from university to young professional time goes fast!

Anyway, thank goodness for online forums because here's one I wouldn't ask my friends in the pub!

I started to have sex with my girlfriend about a year ago (my first time (at 23) but not hers) and gradually over time we've become comfortable and our confidence has increased. As this has happened we've started to try new positions, the latest one being doggystyle.

As daft as this sounds I find it so hard to "get in" and then even "stay in". I'm not sure if mine or her positioning is all wrong but after 3 or 4 attempts he starts to go flacid downstairs. Does anyone have any "tips"?

Thanks
S

Former Member

Her pelvis needs to be slightly lower than yours. This can be awkward if she has longer legs than you, which is not uncommon.

If she has the muscle strength she May need to squat slightly. If not lying face down, you on top of her with her pushing up or with a pillow under her tummy helps give a similar feeling of depth.

Former Member

One of these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2710 might help scroll down the page and there's a video showing you how to use it, and even further down there are some reviews :thumb:

Former Member

Here is a little snipet of a chat with Sex and relationships expert Emily Dubberley advising a girl to try flat doggy style, which could be a suggestion for you to try;

Your cervix might not be able to manoeuvre out of the way - in which case try flat doggy, it's similar to doggy style but you lie flat on your front. Also, tighten your cagel muscles, inside your vagina, as that will help stop him going too hard and fast and can act as a cue without ruining the mood.

Speaking to your girlfriend about this could also help you both adjust the position to what feels more comfortable. Hope this helps

Former Member

hmm. you can simply Google it and try to make sure you have the position correct. and also try Porn Movies