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Do you like to watch?
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When someones going down on you do you like to watch them doing it? When your going down on someone do you get put off by someone watching you? Went down on a guy the other day and he insisted on watching me do it, he says he really likes to watch it! I dont like watching a guy go down on me I prefer to just lay back and enjoy
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Seeing a girl give you a bj is great! Almost as good as those first 4 seconds when her mouth just touch it!! Pure bliss for me, shame it kind of go's down hill after that:(
I love eye contact when either me or my gf are giving head. We tend to hold hands too, particularly when Im doing it to her:D
..................but that's another subject !;)
Back to the subject in hand, & being gay, a slightly different slant.
Generally me & my partner watch each other whist doing a BJ, but sometimes not. Depends on the moment.
Also it's hot to stand in front of a mirror, & watch ourselves from a side view.
That's hot !:D
Somewhat contradictory lizza...
Watching enhances the excitement for a guy so if you want him to be the most pleasured he can be, you should want him to watch...
but when i give him a blow job i hate him looking at me
we look at each others eyes during mutual masterbation though.
*boggled*
you know what i mean. im not completely comfortable with him watching, but if it makes him happy, then he can.
(ive never told him im not comfortable...it could make the whole thing uneasy)
But what do people think about sex (or other acts) infront of other people, seen as though plenty of us came to this thread thinking that might be what it was about!!!!!
Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't it true that there is simply more to see down there if a girl goes down on a guy? Ladies, how much of what's happening to you can you actually see?
By the way - congrats and thanks to Bandit4911 - the handholding thing is just SO nice! Go on everyone, try it!!
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Glad to be of assistance:D :cool:
I don't mind if my girlfriend watches me when I perform oral - just as long as she enjoys it is all that matters. I look at her though!
Lornz is it you? I aint seen you on here for ages. You in HSC while doin this prob see you after holidays back to work then missy. May be down the lites soon see yous then. Supposed to be goin millenium with gary etc. after lanzarote so see you then. incaes you havent wondered sent you PMs.
I dont mind being watched if you love them and its not a sordid affair then why not. i like tro see whats going on as well. Why be ashamed of someone watching you if they like it you please them
After a few days that kind of goes away and I'm fine with it. Just initially I feel really...just not confident enough.