In a bit of a problem here need help D:

Former Member

Would you say im his bit on the side or is he cheating?
Right i met my ex today like and his g/f wasnt there and he started putting his arm round me like and we got talking and half way through the day he ended up kissing me like

and he sees me whenever he aint with his g/f

He texts me almost every night telling me he misses me and phones me
and next week he's staying at my house for a few days and im staying round his

am i his bit on the side or is he cheating
just so i know if i should get rid of him
xxxx

Former Member

You're his bit on the side, yes. He is cheating, yes.
You should stop this.

Nuff said.

Former Member

dear littlebabe,

regretfully, i think you're his bit on the side. i'm sure you are an amazing person, you deserve to be his everything, not his everything when his girlfriends not there.
why settle for less than you deserve???

he seems to think he can have his cake and eat it too.....

life is too short, to stay with someone who doesnt completely appreciate you.....

good luck

if you want let us know how it goes

take care

ginger101

Former Member

thank you ill ditch him for good x

Former Member

It's all too easy to believe that because you went out once before, that you are in the right no matter what you are doing and that you have more right to this guy because you were once his girlfriend; but the sad truth is yes, you are the other woman and yes, he is cheating on this other woman with you. Put yourself in her shoes and finish it. The guy is being a complete dick and playing the both of you. There are plenty of decent guys out there but unfortunaltely there are plenty of arseholes.