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It hurts :-(
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I have been with my b/f for a year and a half now. Things are fine apart from sex. At the beginning it was fine but since about Christmas it has hurt and this makes me not want to try. i have been to a clinic and there is nothing wrong with me. This is really destroying my relationship so if anyone can give me some advice I would be very grateful!
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If that doesnt work you'd best become a Nun sweetheart!!! Hope it all sorts itself out, Gxx
you don't say if it hurts at the entrance or deeper inside. At the entrance it's more likely to be you not wanting to open up. Are you sure you still want an intimate relationship with this guy? If your going off him a part of you already knows and doesn't want to be this close to him. On the other hand if you still feel the same then you could be anticipating the pain and that can make you tense. I had that problem once and had to force myself to trust him like I did the first time we did it.
Also you can sometimes get thrush which can make you sore but you would also have an itchy crutch!
I also found that some makes of the pill made my vagina very swollen and sensitive and I couldn't have sex without pain so I went on a different make.