Foreplay tips

Former Member

Hallo

So my general gist of foreplay is massages and kisses into heavier stuff. But it's becoming a bit cliché; if I kiss her neck, for example, she knows what I'm thinking and I'm sure does an internal :rollseyes: especially if she's had a difficult day. Does anyone have any good ideas for the 'initation' things. My girlfriend is a bit fed up of being tickled too .

Basically what are the best things guys do to help a girl unwind so she can start to feel sexy at the end of the day.

Former Member

Kiss her neck when you have no intention of taking it further.

Former Member

Hugs are good! just generally doing things like set the table, make dinner etc- anything where she can put her feet up for a bit- oooh foot massage (always think of Pulp Fiction when i hear those words)

specifically foreplay? gentle touching all over without touching genitals for a while is good (i think this is called sensate focus?)

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ShyBoy wrote: »

Hallo


Basically what are the best things guys do to help a girl unwind so she can start to feel sexy at the end of the day.

the dishes

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thanks guys, it seems the problem was less what i was doing and more what i was being. I suppose the point is if the girl never wants to initiate it herself then its because she's not attracted to you not because you're doing something wrong.

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thats probably got some truth in it

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Foot rubbing. Shoulder and back massages. Things like that that can be nice without really having anything to do with sex.