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What would you think?

I was talking to my mate today, and she was telling me about last week, she went out and she copped off with this guy she met at a club, and went back to his house. Well she had one of them bra's on, you know the gel filled ones ? Not the ones with implants that you put in, but the ones that have the gel implants already sewn in lol. She said she got back to his house and they were sort of getting down to it and when he saw her bra, he started pissing himself laughing at it! She said she was well embarassed and felt really stupid cos he laughed for ages, and she nearly ended up going home cos he was laughing!

Now what I want to know is would most guys reaction be if they got a girl home and seen she was wearing one of them bras? lol I've got one, and my boyfriend thinks its cool! So what do people think ?
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    i wouldnt mind, i suppose, it might be a bit dissapointing if her breasts were considably smaller, but i wouldnt really mind

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how shallow is that bloke, wot a dick. hope she still aint with him?
    i aint got gel ones, but i do have the 1's with the pad u put in, luckily i aint had n e 1 even notice. i always, always, always wear a push up bra though, not that i aint got boobs, but i prefer em.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    god that is so sad!!!! why does a bloke care that much how big someone's boobs are??! its not that important ffs!!! and why is he so insensitive to laugh at her? horrible person. he deserves never to get a girlfriend.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I was her I would have pointed at his fireman and laughed for hours and see how big he feels then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Your friend should have just given him a slap!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I love stuff like that! My gf aint got a gel one but one similar to a wonderbra but has a click thing instead of strings and i thing its cool. That bloke was a moron but theres a lot of them around...

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wot an inconciderate prick!!! i agree with the person who said she should have looked at his willy and laughed and laughed!!! i hope ur friend told him where to go
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    god that is so sad!!!! why does a bloke care that much how big someone's boobs are??! its not that important ffs!!! and why is he so insensitive to laugh at her? horrible person. he deserves never to get a girlfriend.

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt; HANG ON A MINUTE! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
    Its sad that she wore it in the first place! I mean, shes the "pathetic" and "shallow" one for wearing it in the first place. If she thinks it matters then shes going for the wrong sort of bloke. I wouldnt openly laugh at someone but I would think they were the shallow ones - pretending to be bigger than they are.

    Wouldnt you girls laugh if got a fella home to find his undies stuffed with socks? Exactly.

    I dont mean to offend those of you who say you have one. Please dont judge me - Im nice. Its just how I feel!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    Marvin
    "And then she asked me, 'Do I look alright?' And I say 'Yes, you look wonderful tonight.'"

    [This message has been edited by Marvin (edited 11-02-2001).]
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    yeah you're right about that too marvin. sorry for that post, i was a bit drunk when i wrote that.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; but yeah its sad that you have to pretend you're bigger than youre not, both girls and boys like in your example. but then i can see why girls do it and think its a bit insensitive to point and laugh, exactly mark, how would blokes like it if girls just pointed and laughed the minute the bloke dropped their trousers??

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like being agreed with!

    Thank you, GFM, for not taking it personally. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Marvin
    "And then she asked me, 'Do I look alright?' And I say 'Yes, you look wonderful tonight.'"
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Marvin:
    I like being agreed with!

    Thank you, GFM, for not taking it personally. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; now who says newbies are all bad?! hehe <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I dont think its sad, if you've got really small breasts then you might want just an extra bit of lift when you go out, and its not as if you wear them everyday.

    I only wanted to know what lads reactions would be and i know now they're all different.

    Oh and my mate didnt end up sleeping with him cos she saw he was a bit of a wanker.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ElisaKate:
    Well I dont think its sad, if you've got really small breasts then you might want just an extra bit of lift when you go out, and its not as if you wear them everyday.

    I only wanted to know what lads reactions would be and i know now they're all different.

    Oh and my mate didnt end up sleeping with him cos she saw he was a bit of a wanker.

    Granted, but its totally unneccesary. You are who you are. And if people dont like it they arent worth the effort. Face it, you would laugh if you got a fella home and he had something in his pants!

    Self confidence is important though - I can see your point of view!



    Marvin
    "And then she asked me, 'Do I look alright?' And I say 'Yes, you look wonderful tonight.'"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; now who says newbies are all bad?! hehe <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    Thank you (again) GFM! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Its nice to be appreciated! I just wanna lose the newbie tag though, because somehow it gains your opinion much more respect!



    Marvin
    "And then she asked me, 'Do I look alright?' And I say 'Yes, you look wonderful tonight.'"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey Marvin!

    I was reading the first post, and almost hit "reply" right then to give my 2 cents... but I decided to scroll down to see if someone had the same reaction than me and ... you did! Way to go.

    Girls say that he's a total **** for laughing and that he should not care about how big they are... well what about I go out with padding all over to look like Mr. Universe and you find out it's all fake? gees
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol.. thing is u pull some1 in clubs for looks not their personality...
    Mayb the guy shoulda held back the laughter I guess n its not exactly bad thing... Just 1 of these makeup things init..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Marvin:
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt; HANG ON A MINUTE! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
    Its sad that she wore it in the first place! I mean, shes the "pathetic" and "shallow" one for wearing it in the first place. If she thinks it matters then shes going for the wrong sort of bloke. I wouldnt openly laugh at someone but I would think they were the shallow ones - pretending to be bigger than they are.

    Wouldnt you girls laugh if got a fella home to find his undies stuffed with socks? Exactly.

    I dont mean to offend those of you who say you have one. Please dont judge me - Im nice. Its just how I feel!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    I totally disagree. I mean yes its sad she had to pretend to be something she wasn't, and she should be happy being the size she was.
    BUT - there's so much pressure on girls to be a certain body type. Yes its shallow but sometimes its unavoidable.

    Its not shallow or pathetic. Its sad that there's so much pressure that she felt the need to do that.

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    yeah i agree with you too trancegrrl. lol im not being very decisive, agreeing with both sides of the argument!!! but i agreed with what marvin said and what you said kind of causes what marvin said to be the case, hence i agree with you.

    that makes no sense does it?? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right ok heres my view:

    I wear push up bras when im out, dont know why but cos they make ur tits look better or at least they make me think they do, n if ur out you wanna feel good about urself dont you, n then u have a better night,

    About lads laughing well yeah i would probably be a bit shocked if some huy pulled loads of socks out of thier pants, but the fact is i would never go in a club to pull n look at everyones cocks or around that area,

    see a big on n think woohoo im taking that one home, i go in look for someone i like n then make a move on them, if they got a big one they got a big one if they got a small one they got a small one, who cares! girls dont go looking for a big one,

    obviously if they see one thenm maybe some mouths might water and some girls might go for them but hey who wants a girl like that eh??

    Where as with lads when they r out to pull they see a big pair of tits n think yes baby im having some of that, not always but i know sooo many guys who see a bird with a big pair o babs n will try n pull em anyway, no matter whether they like em or not,

    and yeah their are the guys that dont, but there are more lads after a big pair of tits than girls going round big dick spotting.

    Lets face it how many of us girls here wear push up bras or padded bras when we are out??

    I fuckin do n i dont give a fuck if someone thinks im shallow for it, n if someone laughed at me id prob pretend i didnt care n then id go down on him n bite into his cock real hard whilst i twisted his balls in my hand,

    then id get up n say thats for laughing at my tits u little prick,

    but were all different, i do think it was a bit insensitive of him to laugh at her, but lets face it she met him in a club they were both probably pissed n u dont think to yourself has this person got a complex r they gonna feel bad if i laugh and do they think theyve got small boobs n all that lot.

    Thing is theres this thing about that girls tink they have to have these perfect pert round breasts n if they dont guys rnt gonna like them, but we havent thought this up in our own minds, women have got that way because of things like porn material (videos magazines papers etc etc....) when do u see a girl in one of those with a piar of weird tits, theyre all perfect lookin or good as,

    and we also feel like that because men take the piss saying shit like u got saggy tits n etc etc...

    im sure you all know what im talking about so guys next time u call someone (if ur that sort of guy) remember its commments like that, that make girls wear push up bras n be not happy aboutt heir bodys,

    n its no good saying well they are obviously very insecure about themselves and about how they feel because if they werent they wouldnt let it bither them and they wouldnt care what guys said, because this is all bullshit,

    if no guys would ever have told me i was fat ugly, all that stuff i never woulda gave a fuck how i looked i woulda been happy being fat n not been ashamed of myself but seen as i got bullied like fuck when i was in the younger years of school i went on this massive diet n lost pure wieght then i go back to schoool n im major popular all of a sudden cos everyone wants to talk to me n sees im mint <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    N the same goes witht he bra thing maybe if no one made this thing out about booobs having to be good and a really important thing to men then maybe ud be getting what u thought u would at the end of the night cos none if s would be wearing push up bras.

    I do know there are men who dont go calling women about thier breasts n they are the nice ones of this world but there are some not so nice ones,

    Sorry if this is really long but i sort of have strong opinions about shit like this, and i couldnt stop going on.

    Ive probably killed this thread off now lol, or im sure some guys will come along n say u cant blame us for it.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit II:
    Right ok heres my view:

    I wear push up bras when im out, dont know why but cos they make ur tits look better or at least they make me think they do, n if ur out you wanna feel good about urself dont you, n then u have a better night,
    ...snip..lol

    yeah i agree with what you're saying, you want to look good for yourself when you go out, you wear clothes that make you look good for yourself to make yourself feel good, not just to pull blokes.

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think, if you have to look good to feel good, you have really low self-esteme and that's really sad! I have never followed any 'fasion' in my life, i never wear make-up, never wear a dress or a skirt, never wear push-up bras etc, i probably don't look all that good (or maybe i do, coz i'm not trying too hard...) but i feel good about myself anyway! i have a wonderful boyfriend, loads of great mates, i'm doing okay in school, get on with my family, why do i need to comform to this ideal of 'looking good' just so i can feel good?
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    button, you dont. i dont think thats what everyone saying, exactly.. well i didnt mean that if it sounded like i did anyway. just if youre wearing something you know suits you (be it in fashion or not, i dont buy stuff just coz of fashions, i buy what suits me and what i like), it makes you feel good about yourself. if you feel good no matter what you're wearing, then that makes you even luckier than everyone else and thats good <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Button:
    i think, if you have to look good to feel good, you have really low self-esteme and that's really sad!

    That is NOT what i was sayin at all, i didnt mean you have to look good to feel good, im just sayin that i dont see nothing wrong with makin urself feel better by looking ur best, but it IS nice to look good if it does boost ur confidence,

    ok yeah when i think about it maybe i have got low self esteem, why the fuck does that make me sad, the ppl who are sad are the ones who've caused me to have this low self esteem, god i know ppl are gonna think im going way off pot now but ppl with attitudes like urs fuck me off sooo much,

    like i said b4 if women werent made to feel like they had to have these perfect breats then they would feel the need to wear push up bras we'd all be happy wiv our funny looking or what ever kind of tits weve got,

    im confident as fuck when im out, i dont be shy, im not scared of talkin to ppl because i know i look good or as good as im ever going to n that makes me feel good about myself n who dont like looking good eh,

    I have never followed any 'fasion' in my life, i never wear make-up, never wear a dress or a skirt, never wear push-up bras etc, i probably don't look all that good (or maybe i do, coz i'm not trying too hard...) but i feel good about myself anyway!

    Well good for you then, ppl dont have to follow fashions, but when theirs billboards all over the place all the time with women with these nice pert round tits with this perfect cleavage, theyre advertising that, thats the thing to be, thats what makes ur tits look good,

    kids who r young see this sort of stuff n they grow up looking at it n think, my tits arent like that, ill get a push up bra,

    you say u feel good about urself well whats wrog wiv a girl makin herself feel good by tryna looke her best if thats what makes her happy
    i have a wonderful boyfriend, loads of great mates, i'm doing okay in school, get on with my family, why do i need to comform to this ideal of 'looking good' just so i can feel good?

    You dont have to conform to this ideal of lookin good, no one is sayin gyou should, im sayin that its sad some of us feel like we should cos we should be happy wiv ourselves the way we r,

    you do what makes you feel good but dont call ppl sad cos looking as best they can makes them feel good.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Having low self esteem is NOT sad.

    Sometimes if you have low self esteem you can't help it and even though you want to be more confident and have more self esteem and stuff you can't.

    Even when you try.

    So button you're wrong.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ElisaKate:
    Having low self esteem is NOT sad.

    Sometimes if you have low self esteem you can't help it and even though you want to be more confident and have more self esteem and stuff you can't.

    Even when you try.

    So button you're wrong.

    I see what you mean cause I do try to build up my self esteem but I can't. I do have confidence now though which I never had before. Its ver very difficult to build self esteem!!!



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    elisa that guy sounds like a jerk, shes probably better off without him!

    Button, i'm glad that u feel good without having to look good, but lots of ppl don't (myself included) and it's not sad to have low self-esteem, for me its part of my life. (unfortunately)

    Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    elisa that guy sounds like a jerk, shes probably better off without him!

    Button, i'm glad that u feel good without having to look good, but lots of ppl don't (myself included) and it's not sad to have low self-esteem, for me its part of my life. (unfortunately)


    Yeah, I have to look good to feel good too. I know it sounds really stupid but how I act depends on how I look! Like if I'm shopping, or at college, and my hair is a mess, I don't like looking people in the eye, and if anyone talks to me I'm dead quiet, and my confidence goes way way down I don't even know why...

    but if I look ok and my hair is nice and stuff I feel more confident and I walk along and I'll actually look at people and talk to my friends loads. That sounds dead weird but I dunno.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nonononono... i didn't mean having low self-esteme is sad as in 'uncool', it's sad as in 'poor you' kinda way... but not so patronising... i don't know how to explain it, i just think it's sad that people can't be happy with who they are inside, they have to concentrate on the outside too much... oh, i dunno!
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