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Is my husband something weird?
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I’m a girl 25 years old; my husband is 5 years older than me. He often likes to buy some sexy lingeries to me for spicing up our sex life. Several days ago, he found a cheap group buying site selling sexy lingeries; I’m very surprised at this, too. So he bought one at once, three days later he got it and he wanted me to put the lingerie on asap, btw I like making love, but I can’t bear some kind of this activity, which is really makes me crazy, because I think I just like a whore when I’m wearing them. Fuck the groupoutlets, which is still selling the lingerie, and my husband is waiting to find some special lingerie for me. I’m wondering maybe my husband is something wrong, but I don’t know, and I don’t how to do, I hope anyone could give some suggestions. Thx very much.:crying:
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If you dont like wearing it though, make sure you tell him and maybe suggest something else you can do to spice things up. If you dont feel comfortable doing it then dont be forced to
I wouldn't suggest that there is anything wrong with him in terms of his desires, but his approach is clumsy and selfish. You need to tell him how you feel, there is no point staying quiet and just hoping he will work out that you're not happy. In an ideal world he SHOULD, but it's always better to talk about things rather than to keep the inside.
Welcome to the boards :wave:
As many people suggested, perhaps it would be a good idea to speak to your husband about this? Have you mentioned any of this to him? Communicating as a couple is very important and can make a big difference.
Sometimes couples do things like this regularly and if neither say anything they assume they are happy and fine with everything that is going on. Just be honest with him and hopefully you will eventually be able to compromise on what he wants and what you want
Also, if you feel sluttish, where the clothes but hold the power. Make him wait a few hours for the sex so you know it's you he wants and not just the clothes. Tease and have fun dude. You only have one life to live.