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Jealousy over other girls
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I'm having sex with this guy. He uses Facebook a lot and posts some cheeky comments on mutual female friends status like "that pic is hot" etc. He only ever says those kind of things to me in private and would never put those comments on my status. I feel jealous on one hand and special on the other and yet I could be one of many. Am I a deluded idiot?
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or to put it in softer words: you are overinterpreting things. Apparently you are not exclusive with this guy, so there is nothing you could complain about anyway, but he will find other people hot regardless with who he has sex or is together. Deal with it.
Id be annoyed if he wasnt openly flirty/complimentary with me, yet was with others
This.
I should also learn to take this advice. Er, oops.
Welcome to the boards!
I just wanted to point out that a couple of the responses in this thread haven't been very sensitive or particularly helpful - so please stick to constructive criticism if it has to be criticism.
We don't know much about your relationship with this man, yet it seems that no matter what it looks like, you're feeling upset enough to post here - and therefore we are all ears.
It seems like on paper this relationship is just sex. However your feelings have been hurt by how he "flirts" and posts comments about other girls. To echo some of the helpful replies, perhaps it's important for you to decide what you want out of this? Is he simply a fuck buddy or do you like him? Perhaps he has no idea how you feel and even though he might simply wants one thing - you might be surprised. Either way at least you will know where you stand and/or where you will eventually stand.
Good luck *hug*