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Pegging
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Hi all, my girlfiend want to try pegging, she has used a dildo on my anus before and it felt Really good and something we both enjoy, but now she wants to wear a strap on and basicly shag me! She had even bought a big purple strap on dildo which arrived about a week ago and she's dying to use it on me.
I have no concern with her doing this to me from a gay point of view, I know I'm not gay and am very secure with my sexuality, I'm just worried that A) the dildo she bought is too big for me and
where does it end? She has already hinted that she would like to watch someone else do me up the bum (I presumed she means another woman and not a guy) has anybody else experimented with this? Any advice greatly appreciated
I have no concern with her doing this to me from a gay point of view, I know I'm not gay and am very secure with my sexuality, I'm just worried that A) the dildo she bought is too big for me and
where does it end? She has already hinted that she would like to watch someone else do me up the bum (I presumed she means another woman and not a guy) has anybody else experimented with this? Any advice greatly appreciated 0
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You need to talk to her about both points. That you're worried it's a bit big - and that you both need to take care when using it [and to talk to you these matters before buying?]. Talk about your comfortable zone of how far you're willing to experiment, and how far she thinks you're willing to experiment.
Dude, I opened it to find out what on Earth it was too! "Pegging" has now been added to my sexual lexicon.
OP: If she's gone out and bought a Tremendous Terry right off the bat, I'd have a word. Start of with a tickler first; work your way up. You only get one butt-hole.
Todays new word is 'figging' lol
Just a suggestion, try a double ender....
Oh man i recently learnt what figging is!! :shocking::shocking:
Its umm..... interesting......
OH
MY
GOD
i feel sick
I'm intrigued! ginger root?
ugh i can imagine if it's the sort of pain that is like getting chlli in your eye or something then noooo.. not for me
As long as your girlfriend is open minded then everything will be fine. Love is what comes first in a relationship.. Not anatomy.