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Lost!!!! :(
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A couple of months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. For a while all I could think of was how to get him back. We have remaind friends and in honesty I much prefer this as there is so much less pressure on me on how I look when I see him, what I say etc. Although I'll admit I still occasionally think of me and him together as a couple again.
Heres the thing, at the weekend I went out with my university mates who I don't see an awful lot now unis finished. Towards the end of the night I ended up getting together with one of the lads (who actually from the very second he came out I thought looked hot), this isn't the first time. Anyway sunday we went out for a lovely day and both said we had a great time. However, I waited for him to contact me (hoping chivalry isn't dead) but no contact, so I text him, and got a basic response, I replied and have as yet not received a reply back. I actually like this person more than I thought I might, especailly since sharing such a lovely day.
Thing is with him being a friend I don't want to push too hard to find out what he thinks of me, and he's the last person I want to make an idiot out of myself with. But I would quite like another date you know just to see how it goes.
Heres the thing, at the weekend I went out with my university mates who I don't see an awful lot now unis finished. Towards the end of the night I ended up getting together with one of the lads (who actually from the very second he came out I thought looked hot), this isn't the first time. Anyway sunday we went out for a lovely day and both said we had a great time. However, I waited for him to contact me (hoping chivalry isn't dead) but no contact, so I text him, and got a basic response, I replied and have as yet not received a reply back. I actually like this person more than I thought I might, especailly since sharing such a lovely day.
Thing is with him being a friend I don't want to push too hard to find out what he thinks of me, and he's the last person I want to make an idiot out of myself with. But I would quite like another date you know just to see how it goes.
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If he was, not only would he have text you first...but he would have replied with much more than a basic answer. So as tough as it may seem, cut your losses.
But what does this have to do with your ex bf? I didn't get that bit :chin: