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Anal play and numb legs!!
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Bit of funny one, this one.....
I've been seeing a guy for about 3 months now, and over the past week we've been experimenting with anal play - starting off with fingers and lots of lube, which was great, and then gradually moving up to full sex. The first time was a little painful for me, but we took things really slowly and wound up in fits of giggles, which kind of put paid to continuing! The second time was, again, a little sore, but eventually got into it and everything fell into place.
Thing is, both times I noticed that once he was all the way in, I started to slowly lose feeling in my legs - I was simultaneously having a momentary panic (ha!) so he stopped moving and we waited for me to calm down before continuing. But the third time I went totally numb from my thighs down quite suddenly - I've never heard of this happening before and I'm generally pretty well clued up on these things - has anyone else experienced this? The Mr thought maybe I'd gone into mild shock, which I know can happen, but wanted to see if anyone here had come across this before and might be able to offer some tips on how to stop it?!
We've always started things with me lying flat on my front and him lying on top and easing in from above me, or on our sides in spoons, so I don't think it's a position-related thing as there are no 'bends' for blood to be cut off at.....
I've been seeing a guy for about 3 months now, and over the past week we've been experimenting with anal play - starting off with fingers and lots of lube, which was great, and then gradually moving up to full sex. The first time was a little painful for me, but we took things really slowly and wound up in fits of giggles, which kind of put paid to continuing! The second time was, again, a little sore, but eventually got into it and everything fell into place.
Thing is, both times I noticed that once he was all the way in, I started to slowly lose feeling in my legs - I was simultaneously having a momentary panic (ha!) so he stopped moving and we waited for me to calm down before continuing. But the third time I went totally numb from my thighs down quite suddenly - I've never heard of this happening before and I'm generally pretty well clued up on these things - has anyone else experienced this? The Mr thought maybe I'd gone into mild shock, which I know can happen, but wanted to see if anyone here had come across this before and might be able to offer some tips on how to stop it?!
We've always started things with me lying flat on my front and him lying on top and easing in from above me, or on our sides in spoons, so I don't think it's a position-related thing as there are no 'bends' for blood to be cut off at.....
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