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Worried because of last time
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Heyy,
(please don't reply with comments about my age, and how I shouldn't be having sex etc. I would just like advice)
The boy I am currently with, I was with last year for 5ish months. I took his virginity, but when we had sex I bled really heavily! Which was so embarrassing, and rather worrying! I lost my virginity a long time ago, as I was raped, so it wasn't my hymen breaking or anything.
And now I'm really worried that, if we do have sex again (which we have no intention of yet, as we've only been back together a month or so) that I will bleed again
To this day, I still don't know why I bled, I wasn't on the pill or anything so it's nothing to do with that.
Any ideas? x
(please don't reply with comments about my age, and how I shouldn't be having sex etc. I would just like advice)
The boy I am currently with, I was with last year for 5ish months. I took his virginity, but when we had sex I bled really heavily! Which was so embarrassing, and rather worrying! I lost my virginity a long time ago, as I was raped, so it wasn't my hymen breaking or anything.
And now I'm really worried that, if we do have sex again (which we have no intention of yet, as we've only been back together a month or so) that I will bleed again
To this day, I still don't know why I bled, I wasn't on the pill or anything so it's nothing to do with that.Any ideas? x
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And wasn't a long time since I'd last had sex, a couple of months at most I think
And, this was last summer, so yeah I've stopped bleeding
theres no reason it should happen again
Can that happen? It was probably that then, because the bleeding lasted for a few days, thanks Suzy
Happens to me all the time.
I hope you're using protection more than just the pill. You can never be too careful and all that.
Go back and ask to try another one.
Edit - or maybe think about the implant / injection.
i got it 9 months ago and ive had one period since :d
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And, does it hurt when it gets put it? Annnddd, how long does it last? Oh, and can you notice it?
-Implants are over 99% effective in preventing pregnancy.
-It works for up to 3 years.
-A nurse would use a local anaesthetic so the bit of your arm would be numb before putting it in, but could be a bit sore afterwards.
99.9% effective and it doesnt hurt as the numb your arm for you
it lasts for 3 years and it isnt noticable as it is on the underside of your arm
and you have to wear a bandage on it for at least 24 hrs after gettin it
it leaves a small scar but its not really noticable.
xx
Ive wondered about getting the implant but nervous because it stops periods completely and for me, the period is what signals fertility (even though technically i guess the period you get on the pill isnt 'real'). Im worried incase afterwards i find im completely infertile because of it
i don't think i've heard of the implant makin women infertile..
not everyone's periods stop completely, every body is different..
i know people who have periods while having the implant, and people (like myself) who have a few, and others who don't have any at all.
but prior to me getting the implant my periods weren't regular and when i did have them they were really heavy and painful, thats why i got the implant..
Going to the clinic tomorrow, so reckon I'll ask about different types of pill
I know what you mean, this was a thought that i had also... but then again if i'm infertile, i'll find out when i start trying for a kid- so having or not having a period doesn't make a difference.