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is it normal for women to masturbate over other women?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
just wanted to know, is it normal for STRAIGHT women to masturbate over other women, having women as their preference rather than men? If so why and would it make them bisexual?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well for a start nothing is "normal". People like what they like whether thats men or women or both. Also some people might be bi-curious in that they call themselves straight, have heterosexual relationships but fantasise about the same sex. This doesnt mean that they will ever act on it, it might just be a fantasy for them. Sexuality is specific to each person and everyone views their sexuality differently.

    As long as its legal, safe, and consenting it doesnt matter the label you put on yourself or what kind of bits the person you fancy has
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its pretty normal. LOADS of straight women love lesbian porn. I think it hints towards the bisexual or bi-curious in some women, but not all.
    A lot of women like to imagine that THEY ARE that sexy woman, rather than wanting to do her
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't necessarily think it's abnormal. In my personal experience with my girlfriend...she has no interest in women but masturbates to lesbian porn mostly because women tend to be alot more sensual and she gets off on the sensuality. When it comes to porn between a man and a woman the guy usually does his thing and that's about it. When it comes to two women, again, they tend to be more sensual, slow, and....I guess you could say erotic and my girlfriend loves that. I don't necessarily think that it makes a female bi-sexual but everyone is curious and that's ok. I'd suggest, if you're ok with it, be open to it and see what happens.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm straight and I love lesbian porn, so I don't think so, there's something about seeing 2 women together for me, and I'm 100% straight :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think this is a little secret for many women. I dated alot before settling down. I was shocked to find how many women are aroused by other women. My wife admits to being attracted to othe women. She has admitted to masturbating to SC porn with has men also. I think that this is very common.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It gets me off like nothing else.

    No, really. I have a vivid as hell imagination but when it's just not working for whatever reason, I turn to the porn.

    None of this staged and crap shit, though, and no strap-ons or dildos or whatever. Sensual, like whoeveritwasupthere said. Some of my bestest orgasms have come from imagining a girl down there instead of a guy.

    So, um, yes, it's normal :3.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cuppatboys wrote: »
    I'm straight and I love lesbian porn, so I don't think so, there's something about seeing 2 women together for me, and I'm 100% straight :)
    Me 2 !! Its totally normal x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jackson24 wrote: »
    I don't necessarily think it's abnormal. In my personal experience with my girlfriend...she has no interest in women but masturbates to lesbian porn mostly because women tend to be alot more sensual and she gets off on the sensuality. When it comes to porn between a man and a woman the guy usually does his thing and that's about it. When it comes to two women, again, they tend to be more sensual, slow, and....I guess you could say erotic and my girlfriend loves that. I don't necessarily think that it makes a female bi-sexual but everyone is curious and that's ok. I'd suggest, if you're ok with it, be open to it and see what happens.

    I am exactly the same as your girlfriend. I'm straight but I love watching lesbian porn for the above reason.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm glad someones mentioned this.

    I always masturbate and focus on the girl. - tbh in most porn you hardly see any of the guy apart from cock and ass.

    The girls the one thats moaning and enjoying it, whether it be lesbian or straight, also not all of the guys are attractive. but pretty much all female porn stars are attractive or have a nice body that is either envious or nice to look at.

    I feel that myself when I watch porn my brain turns into a males and its realllly weird. I say stuff to myself like 'god yeah make that little sl''t c''m' and stuff thats weird for me to even think!

    I think maybe its because although I'm a pretty head on feminist - my fantasy during sex is to be talked down to :S which again... I DONT GET !
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