and yet another social disaster

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kay so i have this crush on this guy and he just found out i have been crushin 4 like a year and a half. how am i suposed to act around him? considering he is on my bus and i sit in the seat right in front of him.

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Simple. Just be yourself. So he knows. No big deal. :thumb:

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be yourself :d

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You havent done anything wrong so dont feel like you have to tread on eggshells around him. Just continue as normal

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ok then if u say so

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Hi shy_devil_girl,

It's not always easy to be yourself when someone knows you like them - but as everyone says, just acting normal around him will make it easier for you to get to know each other better - it's not going to go anywhere if you are both too embarrassed to talk to each other. There's nothing wrong with liking someone so hold your head up high

There's some stuff on TheSite.org about body language and being confident which you might find helpful to have a look at too!

Good luck :thumb:

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Just talk to him

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Where exactly is the disaster here?
It makes stuff pretty easy. Just talk to him and act friendly towards him. Usually the guy comes on here and makes a thread, "OMG! She is so frndly! I dunno if she digs me ;'(" but this is not an issue here anymore. So you need to observe his reactions very closely now and you will realize if he likes you back.

This is of course counts only if you are older than 14 years where the affection of a person of the other sex is not "eww! cooties!" anymore and this person is not ashamed to show you and have others know that he likes you back.

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the disaster is the fact that i will be 14 soon and that he is 16. and the fact that he likes a blue eyed blonde haired girl in his class and ive known him 4 3yrs and that he has already told me that i dont have a sliver of a chance w/ him

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shy_devil_girl wrote: »

he has already told me that i dont have a sliver of a chance w/ him

Well then he's clearly an inconsiderate prick who doesnt care about hurting your feelings

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shy_devil_girl wrote: »

the disaster is the fact that i will be 14 soon and that he is 16. and the fact that he likes a blue eyed blonde haired girl in his class and ive known him 4 3yrs and that he has already told me that i dont have a sliver of a chance w/ him

Then at least you know what's up. The worse thing is uncertainty. Carry on with your life, forget about him.

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ok ill try

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Just be yourself.

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hes giving me mixed signals now? like on the bus in the morning he kept on looking at me as if i were a science project gone bad and then after school he was poking me and playing with my hair saying "u like me haha i told u" and then it was my stop and i got off.... i just dont know what to make of this strange behavior of his -_-

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shy_devil_girl wrote: »

hes giving me mixed signals now? like on the bus in the morning he kept on looking at me as if i were a science project gone bad and then after school he was poking me and playing with my hair saying "u like me haha i told u" and then it was my stop and i got off.... i just dont know what to make of this strange behavior of his -_-

He is playing with you. It's pretty dirty, but kids these days do everything for their 15 minutes of power and/or fame.

Trust me on that.

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StrubbleS wrote: »

He is playing with you. It's pretty dirty, but kids these days do everything for their 15 minutes of power and/or fame.

Trust me on that.

thats mean

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Dont let him know that he gets to you. He's only doing it to get a reaction out of you

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Lexi99 wrote: »

Dont let him know that he gets to you. He's only doing it to get a reaction out of you

k thats really imature of him. but i guess thats how teenage boys are