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Beats me What do you think?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
As you all may remember (from a previous post) i am a virgin (well i think). I'm 16 and on friday past i had my fifth year formal and it was brilliant! At the party after me and this girl got it together (don't tell me girl friend) then we got very drunk. I remember quite alot but some parts of the night are quite faint in my memory.

I went into school on monday to find everyone looking at me and all the lads where patting me on the back and saying well done 'trust you'. i was totally confused cause all i had done was make out with some girl (i thought i remembered what happened we did get sexual but not the full way) but apparently we where sceen buy a few people over the course of the night outside in the garden on a bench 'really getting stuck into each other' (i remember that much) But most people insist that we actually did it i mean have sex.

Is this possible i mean i am a virgin would i not know some way or another if we did it?? it doesn't sound true but a large numbet of people insist we did and hence all the back patting.

The girl called Sharon lives quite far away and i'm not sure if i could get in contact with her but i can't remember how will she know? i remember her asking me if i had any comdoms but i didn't i know that too. Now after thinking i was a virgin i just found out i'm not and there is nothing to say the girl isn't up the duff.

what shall i do? i know they are not liying but i honestly don't know!

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Unless someone you trust tells you, you're going to have to ask her, unfortunatly, your nob doesn't light up to signify that you had sex last night <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It really isn't the done thing to call up some girl you hardly know to ask "eh, did we have sex, 'cos I can't remember?"

    It's the quickest way to ensure a boot to the bollocks.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alistair:
    <STRONG>Unless someone you trust tells you, you're going to have to ask her, unfortunatly, your nob doesn't light up to signify that you had sex last night <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    *thinks it should*

    Actually, that'd be quite cool. I'm gonna patent that idea.

    What Alistair said. But if you do have to call up the girl, do it diplomatically. Along the lines of "listen, I've heard so many stories about what we did that night, I was hoping you'd be able to clear it up". Summat like that anyways.

    Good luck.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alistair:
    <STRONG>Unless someone you trust tells you, you're going to have to ask her, unfortunatly, your nob doesn't light up to signify that you had sex last night <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    hmmmm intersting...mind did

    but dude seriously...the best way to find out..is just ask her.....be sincere and honests....like

    "hey (insert name here) just wanted to tell you i had a great time last nite with your and everyone, but i also was really drunk, and me having a g/f and all i was just curious in what happend b/w us, meaning how far did we get etc."
    you don't have to say the g/f part if she didn't know taht you had one
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sorry this isn't a constructive post, but a complete digression...

    Just wanted to say hello and welcome to Mr. Bump N' Grind!! I have to agree with you that Canada Kicks Ass and we are the greatest hockey nation!! Greatest nation period, to be fair! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Always good to welcome a fellow Canuck, though I am fairly new here myself.

    xx
    Nikki <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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