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Depression as the lastest trendy accessory

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1278510/Depression-Its-just-new-trendy-illness.html

There's been quite a bit in the media about this so I thought I'd start a thread on here. Basically Janet Street Porter has written in her column that Depression is trendy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is Alistair Campbell's blog about it:

    http://www.alastaircampbell.org/blog.php
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anyone that's had depression will know it's anything but trendy. I can ruin your work, relationships and social life. I think the term gets thrown around alot now, alot of people are stressed but that doesn't make them depressed, people seem to get confused between the two now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That woman is a disgrace.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Janet Street Porter as seen yesterday.

    Just the latest fail from this ghastly woman, it seems. Not to mention there's a certain amount of hypocrisy from the Daily Mail (which printed this bollocks) on this issue. Recently, Allison Pearson - one of their columnists - claimed she was no longer going to be writing for the Mail as she was suffering from depression. Though Pearson's depression obviously isn't going to last long, as she's off to write her weekly shite in the Telegraph, it turns out.

    Had Pearson been anyone else, the Mail and its columnists would have been the first to say "depression? What has this woman got to complain about?".

    No wonder I read the blogs so much more than I do the newspapers - the quality of writing is usually more well-informed than this nonsense. I wonder how much she gets paid to scribble this sheer cockwaffle?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I made it into the signature, er, whoop.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geneve wrote: »
    I think a lot of doctors throw the term around too. I was 'diagnosed' with it and promptly told the doctor to jog on.

    There you go with making a post that belittles people with your air of moral superiority.

    Generally doctors have some form of qualification to know what they are on about, though I guess you know better.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its that kind of attitude and article that makes me cringe from any sort of help or support.:no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geneve wrote: »
    I think a lot of doctors throw the term around too.
    Difficult to assess, this one. There's a lot of conflicting stories doing the rounds.

    Might elaborate on it tomorrow, when I'm not about to fall asleep on my laptop keyboard. Toodle-pip for now...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geneve wrote: »
    I'm not talking about anyone but myself, stop paraphrasing and putting words in my mouth. If you want to take insult from it that's your own decision.

    Im not, but think how a comment like yours could be innocently construed, as one poster has allready said, its comments like that which stop them getting help.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just a few choice quotes from the article:

    'Nowadays, women who've never been in a war zone or experienced an act of terrorism are claiming they are suffering from stress, when all they do is run a home and get the bus to work.'

    'This tidal wave of analysis about why 'having it all' isn't what it was cracked up to be. Why daily life is a series of disappointments. Why sufferers feel empty and suicidal. Get a grip, girls!'

    'This level of widespread stress didn't exist as a medical condition before the Sixties.' - what so because it didn't have a name it didn't happen then?

    'Every day, loads of women get divorced, lose a loved one, give birth and find out they have a terminal disease. But, miraculously, 90 per cent of us, don't get depressed about it, don't take special medication and don't whinge about 'black holes'. That's life in the real world.' yes thats why it's a FUCKING DISEASE

    I have not been this angry in really quite a long time. Literally shaking. I didn't even know depression was a thing until I was diagnosed. I've spent most of the time since hiding it, not flaunting it like a new fucking handbag. I would never wish harm on anyone, but if, gun to my head, I had to choose one person in the whole world to have depression/anxiety it would be whatever arsehole decided it would be fun to start belittling the disease that nearly killed me.

    tune in to JSP's article next week: why Muscular Dystrophy sufferers should just get off their lazy arses and walk
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am a doctor of detecting bullcrap and I detect some in this story. Mental illness still has a huge amount of stimga attached to it. Saying that depression is trendy, is not useful, it's not cool, and it's not clever. Depression is a debilitating illness that lots of people either suffer with directly or have family and/or friends that do. More people are getting diagnosed with breast cancer and heart disease than before (probably, I've not checked any stats but I guess as diagnostic techniques get better, the no. of diagnosis made goes up). It wouldn't be acceptable to say that breast cancer is trendy though, would it?

    pah
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    (probably, I've not checked any stats but I guess as diagnostic techniques get better, the no. of diagnosis made goes up). It wouldn't be acceptable to say that breast cancer is trendy though, would it?

    pah

    Very good point.:thumb:

    Just reading a couple of other forums and comments on the issue. Seems as if no ones happy with her at the moment. I haven't seen anyone yet who wasn't at least disgusted by the article.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I didn't actually read the article mind you, cba.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I read it and really its a disgrace. Only worth reading cos u wouldn't believe how bad it is from others, imo.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geneve wrote: »
    Perhaps I should just have such a statement in my signature, just to keep MrG happy.
    I'm still waiting for him to say something I can stick in the signature. He used to complain incessantly about almost everything I wrote. If it wasn't for Jamelia's efforts, I wouldn't have anything to stick in the signature myself. :p

    Elaborating on what I started to write last night, I was referring mostly to the time limits on GPs. They only have a certain number of minutes to deal with each patient, so if someone says "I've got depression", there isn't much time available to make a fuller analysis of the situation. Also, there are issues in many areas with how much support is actually available for people with depression. A sort of postcode lottery, if you will.

    Though I think it's perfectly valid to ask about whether depression is being exaggerated. Are there really that many more people depressed now than there were 40 years ago, or is it simply that more people are coming forward? Alternatively, is the world really a more rubbish place to live in than it was 40 years ago? Things are never simple in this area...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geneve wrote: »
    She's writes to be argumentative.... it's not supposed to be agreeable.

    Well... I think there is a big difference in being argumentative, provoking a good debate... compared to just really being insulting and offensive.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I got to the point in the article where she said "depression... this relatively new ailment" (the second line, I think) and gave up.

    Sometimes I read the Mail if I want to get a bit angry, but this is a topic I just don't want to read about in there.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good grief. I was diagnosed with depression last year and I'm glad I went to get help because I'm not entirely sure I'd be sitting here typing this if I hadn't. As someone who had the disturbing experience two months ago of seeing two of my friends dangling off a bridge in a double suicide attempt, I fail to see what is trendy about depression.

    I might be thinking of something else here, but I'm pretty sure that depression is most prevalent in people in their late teens to early twenties, but obviously it can happen at any age. As for it being middle-aged middle-classed women, in my experience that's been completely untrue. Of the people I know that have depression, many of them have had awful things happen to them, have almost nothing of their own and live in sheltered housing. Wouldn't exactly say that was people that had it all and complaining that it wasn't what it was cracked up to be.

    I don't know. I guess I shouldn't be surprised, when I told people that I had depression, their first response was 'Well, what do you have to be depressed about?' You don't always need a trigger, it's a chemical imbalance and can happen without any real cause you can point to.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote: »
    Anyone that's had depression will know it's anything but trendy. I can ruin your work, relationships and social life. I think the term gets thrown around alot now, alot of people are stressed but that doesn't make them depressed, people seem to get confused between the two now.

    Exactly.
    More people are getting diagnosed with breast cancer and heart disease than before (probably, I've not checked any stats but I guess as diagnostic techniques get better, the no. of diagnosis made goes up). It wouldn't be acceptable to say that breast cancer is trendy though, would it?

    I agree. Some people (not on here) have said things like "it was unheard of 40 years ago" - maybe it was; but there was no name for it. (or it was mistaken for something else) I remember my dad telling me that people with epliepsy 40 years ago, were put into mental institutions because it was seen as something different back then. (mental illness?)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You don't always need a trigger, it's a chemical imbalance and can happen without any real cause you can point to.

    No doubt a helpful corporation will offer some chemical(s) to redress that diagnosed imbalance.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    geneve wrote: »
    I think a lot of doctors throw the term around too. I was 'diagnosed' with it and promptly told the doctor to jog on.

    So why did you go the doctors then?:confused: You wasted their time and your own time by going.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And who do those cancer research people think they're fooling with their efforts at cancer treatment too, eh Gof of Schmuck?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    And who do those cancer research people think they're fooling with their efforts at cancer treatment too, eh Gof of Schmuck?

    Treatment being the operative word.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good grief. I was diagnosed with depression last year and I'm glad I went to get help because I'm not entirely sure I'd be sitting here typing this if I hadn't. As someone who had the disturbing experience two months ago of seeing two of my friends dangling off a bridge in a double suicide attempt, I fail to see what is trendy about depression.

    I might be thinking of something else here, but I'm pretty sure that depression is most prevalent in people in their late teens to early twenties, but obviously it can happen at any age. As for it being middle-aged middle-classed women, in my experience that's been completely untrue. Of the people I know that have depression, many of them have had awful things happen to them, have almost nothing of their own and live in sheltered housing. Wouldn't exactly say that was people that had it all and complaining that it wasn't what it was cracked up to be.

    I don't know. I guess I shouldn't be surprised, when I told people that I had depression, their first response was 'Well, what do you have to be depressed about?' You don't always need a trigger, it's a chemical imbalance and can happen without any real cause you can point to.

    :yes: :yes: :yes:

    Essentially... depression can kill. And so I think it is so wrong to say that it is a phase, or a "trendy accessory".

    It frustrates me so much because I think that if the stigma around mental health was reduced, more people would be willing to seek help, more people would then get help, leading to them hopefully living happier lives. Unfortunately, its articles like this, and people's narrowminded opinions that play a part in it not being that easy.

    It just sickens me to think that someone could hold that opinion of people who are genuinely ill. These people shouldn't have to face hatred, criticism or prejudice. They need (and deserve!) compassion, help and support.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That article made me irrationally angry, and I will elaborate on that anger later maybe, but for now, I will say:

    There is nothing fucking 'trendy' about lying in bed attacking your body just so that you can feel something. There is nothing trendy about wondering how many fucking pills it would take or when would be the best time to take them. Fuck her. Eugh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's the Mail, I'm not surprised the article is deeply nasty. Yes some people claim to have stress when its really a natural reaction to work (largely due to crappy work conditions and terrible untrained managers in my experience). But to suggest that depression has only been around for a few years or that its trendy is just unpleasant.

    I think she is confusing the gradual easing of stigma over saying you have had a mental illness (thus more people admiting it) with an increase in cases.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No doubt a helpful corporation will offer some chemical(s) to redress that diagnosed imbalance.

    Yes, because we're all in the grip of the pharma industry and no-one has ever tried to treat depression in any other way.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MoK wrote: »
    Yes, because we're all in the grip of the pharma industry and no-one has ever tried to treat depression in any other way.

    Business is business ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety earlier this year.

    I think I've probably been embarrassed about it and tried to keep it from people, more than trying to wear it as a badge of honour. Those I have told (closest friends) I've always qualified it with; "but, it's not that bad."

    I have a friend who works for the pharma industry and specifically works with developing AD drugs, and he and the company he works for admits that other treatments work just as effectively if not more effectively than pharmaceuticals. However, having the drugs there gives the doctor another 'tool in their inventory' as it were.

    If doctors are too lazy / incompetent (forgive me but I'm not too fond of doctors) to prescribe exercise, routine, counselling, support sessions and just give everyone prozac and say "come back if you try to kill yourself" then that's down to the doctors, not the drug industry.

    When you are paid on patients / hour rather than the quality of the treatment, of course doctors are going to adopt a culture of giving quick-fixes. I don't think this means over-diagnosing depression btw, if anything I think it will mean under-diagnosing these illnesses and misdiagnosing people (especially with men who may find it more difficult to a) go to the doctor b) be persistent with the doctor about needing help and not shaking it off).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that article just goes to show that depression still has a massive stigma attached to it - people who don't understand thinking they are in a position to comment on the matter. I've found (when I was a teenager anyway) that even in the actual medical profession it isn't appreciated as much as it should be. I was told by the school nurse several times (who are supposed to to non judgemental and supportive are they not?) that I had 'no reason to be depressed because I was 15' when she knew nothing going on in my life at the time - like my parents divorce for example. She also used to bitch about me to the receptionist (my friend heard them). So much for confidentiality then?
    It also took 3 different doctors to take me seriously - and even then I was only diagnosed with anxiety. Other doctors just turned round and said I was too old and not serious enough for the childrens services and not old enough for the adult services. And that because I wasn't slashing my wrists and threatening to kill myself that I should just go home and 'chill out'.
    Pah - rant over!
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