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Anxious not ignorant
**helen**
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Is the title of our latest rant on social anxiety -
http://www.thesite.org/community/reallife/rants/anxiousnotignorant
Food for thought?
http://www.thesite.org/community/reallife/rants/anxiousnotignorant
Food for thought?
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My boyfriend has SA.
i sympathise with her but im wondering whether she told her employer after being called into the office that she has sa which she is trying to overcome?
I'm pretty sure an employer is allowed to discriminate on grounds of suitability for the role. Now if you're too scared to be friendly to strangers, surely that makes you unsuitable for a public facing job?
I'd reckon either way someone with social anxiety that affects their ability to interact with people is unsuitable for a consumer facing role. Much is the same way someone with visual impairment is unsuitable to lifeguard and someone in a wheel chair is unsuitable as a mountain leader.
Thanks proofies
hm, given that she smiled at a colleague im gonna assume she was.
it was a bit unfair to get negative feedback and not to be given the chance to do anything about it.
When it comes to work though, I change completely, if not with my co-workers then at least with the customers. I actually would never apply for a receptionist job if I had the same problems in work as I do in social situations. Never. Like I am seriously going to try and avoid jobs which involve me making calls all day because it's something I find incredibly difficult to do.
I was never particularly out-going as a youngster, and often got criticised in my first jobs for being quiet and, yes, people thought me rude for not being particularly smiley or talkative. I think it took meeting my second husband (aged 32!) before I was totally confident in a social setting.