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Sexting.
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Had my first experience of 'sexting' last night with my boyfriend.
It all started with us just text flirting and he told me he was playing with himself down there and I started to get wet and rubbing myself down there and we were describing to each other what we were doing and I was extremely turned on, but today when I woke up, after masturbating all night, I felt dirty and ashamed when I spoke to my boyfriend on the phone. Will he think less of me because he knows I masturbate and he knows I've done it in the past too..
It all started with us just text flirting and he told me he was playing with himself down there and I started to get wet and rubbing myself down there and we were describing to each other what we were doing and I was extremely turned on, but today when I woke up, after masturbating all night, I felt dirty and ashamed when I spoke to my boyfriend on the phone. Will he think less of me because he knows I masturbate and he knows I've done it in the past too..
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Only if he's a twat.
Also, you shouldnt feel ashamed about it, EVERYONE does it, even if they dont admit it
I think the 'whatever' attitude is best really.
It's nothing to be ashamed of, everyone does it, and I think as you get older you will see that nobody really cares about it.
Oh my god! I don't think I can ever think of Jim V, Helen and the rest of the mods in the same way again! :shocking:
And yeah, there's nowt to be ashamed of. He's touched you there, so why shouldn't you touch yourself there?
Xx
Pfft, just wait until you see the video
I agree but aren't girls meant to be 'less' sexual than lads and isn't it 'dirty' for a girl to masturbate?
No.
If girls are less sexual then who are the lads being sexual with?
There is nothing to be ashamed about if you are turned on and feel the urge then masturbate away i say :thumb:
So... combining the two (You touching you) must be a real turn on for him!
Xx
Especially when you do it down the phone, that's fun ;x.
like with your top off?
You mean you hope he doesn't think you might enjoy sex, that you're only doing it to please hiim?
It was really hard for me too.
Trueeee. Suppose I shouldn't worry about it then.
How do you know, thought you were sexting, or did you send pictures?
Sorry if this has been said somewhere else but what was his reaction?
its going to be fine. just think he might be asking the same questions. plenty of people in relationships masturbate. its nothing to feel ashamed of. if anything you probably just turned him on even more
If anything, your man should be thankful, not ashamed or embarrassed, and not think less of you, definetly not think less of you.
He was made up! I think he was expecting them to be a bit bigger and you can tell they don't turn him on that much because he wasn't even paying attention to them really, which hurt, but he says to me he loves them.