Fuck My Life!!

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seriously, yet again i feel like shit because i like the wrong fucking person:banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
So the girl i like has a fucking bf, idk how long for but this always fucking happens, the girl i like either has a boyfriend or just sees me as a fucking friend

idk, i just hate my life right now, i quit smoking and i just wanna start again as a way to calm down, GAHHHH! my life just sucks, i hate going through this, and it never gets any better, i jsut really needed to get this all of my chest, idk what to do i just fucking hate my life

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curly_boy wrote: »

seriously, yet again i feel like shit because i like the wrong fucking person:banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
So the girl i like has a fucking bf, idk how long for but this always fucking happens, the girl i like either has a boyfriend or just sees me as a fucking friend

idk, i just hate my life right now, i quit smoking and i just wanna start again as a way to calm down, GAHHHH! my life just sucks, i hate going through this, and it never gets any better, i jsut really needed to get this all of my chest, idk what to do i just fucking hate my life

Why do you hate your life because of a girl you like you cant have?

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You might feel mad now but you'll look back wondering why it affected you so much.

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Raw emotions like the ones I think you are feeling now, always seem the worse. Once they calm down though, lea is right, things will seem a lot better

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why do you get so worked up because of all the girls stories? Just chill out and tell yourself more luck next time. This makes just everything worse for you. Your well-being, your motivation to get involved with another girl, etc.

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plus it's not exactly a cringeworthy let down. she has a boyfriend- simples!

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Shows that you have a good taste in women, obviously you find her attractive as her bf does

Why is there such a social stigma about being single anyway?

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its not the social stigma its just the fact that it happens every fucking time

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curly_boy wrote: »

its not the social stigma its just the fact that it happens every fucking time

Why are you so hellbent on having to have a gf though?

Hey it happens with me an awful lot, or did in the past, it doesnt happen much lately as I've been keeping myself to myself.

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i'm not though its just the fact that i seem to go for girls that always have a boy friend or i just don't stand a chance

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Girls don't like guys who reek of desperation. Fact.

Girls are attracted to guys who are happy. Happy in themselves and are happy by themselves. Fact.

The minute you stop looking for love, as in, genuinely stop looking and reach a state of contentment with being single and with one's self - you will (as if by magic almost) find yourself becoming the subject of lots of female attention. This is no coincidence - it's the same for me and for every other guy full stop.

Whether we like to admit it or not, women are a lot more on the ball when it comes to reading body language and signals than we are. They can smell desperation no matter how suave you think you are.

You've just got to let it go. It's like that scene from Fight Club - Just let go.

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z0ma wrote: »

Girls don't like guys who reek of desperation. Fact.
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Most defiantly this :yes:

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Its so true.

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z0ma wrote: »

Girls are attracted to guys who are happy. Happy in themselves and are happy by themselves. Fact.

:thumb: Spot on. And also true vice versa.

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z0ma wrote: »

Girls don't like guys who reek of desperation. Fact.

Girls are attracted to guys who are happy. Happy in themselves and are happy by themselves. Fact.

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this is so very true.

having a girlfriend won't solve all your problems, yeah it's nice but you have to be happy being yourself before you can be happy with anyone else.

hope everything works out for you xxx

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z0ma wrote: »

Girls don't like guys who reek of desperation. Fact.

Girls are attracted to guys who are happy. Happy in themselves and are happy by themselves. Fact.

The minute you stop looking for love, as in, genuinely stop looking and reach a state of contentment with being single and with one's self - you will (as if by magic almost) find yourself becoming the subject of lots of female attention. This is no coincidence - it's the same for me and for every other guy full stop.

Whether we like to admit it or not, women are a lot more on the ball when it comes to reading body language and signals than we are. They can smell desperation no matter how suave you think you are.

You've just got to let it go. It's like that scene from Fight Club - Just let go.

I second that motion. Girls do not go for guys that are wallowing in self pity, pick yourself up, move on and try again.

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I sense desperation in the sense that you always seem to be chasing after a different girl everytime i come on thesite.

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i don't see myself as desperat its just that i seem to be attracted to a fair few girls that i meet or know of, idk maybe i am, my heads a mess right now because of alot of things

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curly_boy wrote: »

i don't see myself as desperat its just that i seem to be attracted to a fair few girls that i meet or know of, idk maybe i am, my heads a mess right now because of alot of things

I don't know what these things are, but if it's messing your head up i would suggest you sort these first before you try and enter a relationship with anyone.

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You know what I did earlier? I wrote a list of all the guys and girls I've been interested in so far this year... It took more than one page of my notebook I might add... and then I wrote comments by all of them as to why we weren't together.
It helped me realised that I really do need to stop flicking between possible lovers, and just concentrate on MYSELF for once.
I suggest you do the same Go get some new clothes etc, cheer yourself up a tad.
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