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OH OH OH! yet another rant about my f*cked up love live!
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HA! fml! seriously, i hate my love life, thats about all i hate atm, i have an amazing group of friends, band, hockey and skating all going well atm its just everytime i fall for a girl they always seem to have a boyfriend or don't like me in the same way
Is it me? What attracts me about girls with bfs, ffs, i get on really well with them its just someone always is dating them! i don't get it! And when they are single i chat to them, try to be a nice guy but also show that i'm attracted to them to see if they feel the same way and it always ends the same way "aw, so sweet but i only like you as a friend" AOIGHAOIWBGOIA! i just don't get it, i'm just so sick and tired of being single but i'm not coming across as desprate or that i've not been told. I just feel like a total screw up atm...:(
i just have no idea what to do, its always the same and its driving me mental
Is it me? What attracts me about girls with bfs, ffs, i get on really well with them its just someone always is dating them! i don't get it! And when they are single i chat to them, try to be a nice guy but also show that i'm attracted to them to see if they feel the same way and it always ends the same way "aw, so sweet but i only like you as a friend" AOIGHAOIWBGOIA! i just don't get it, i'm just so sick and tired of being single but i'm not coming across as desprate or that i've not been told. I just feel like a total screw up atm...:(
i just have no idea what to do, its always the same and its driving me mental
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I'm sure somewhere down the line you'll meet and like someone whos single, afterall this isnt the only girl out there
just need to chill out tbh
Like you said, try and relax about it, enjoy being single - letting your happiness depend too much on whether or not you're in a relationship can come accross without you realising it - a relaxed and happy single guy is likely to be much more attractive :yes:
Of course, you're allowed to feel frustrated and your confidence might've taken a bit of a knock but like you said you have great friends, a band, hockey, skating - use those to keep you going and I'm sure before too long your love life will be looking up again
I think that just going out with mates actually helped, i was confident enough to ask a girl if i could buy her a drink and it actually didn't go to badly, got her number , she's good looking, she's funny, and i actually don't feel like i have to go out with her, i'd be happy with just being friends if thats what happens, idk, i think just chilling out, taking a look at my life has calmed me down, i'm just happy atm
well I must say that is quite a mixture you had! Possibly why you felt a bit rough?!?!
Take it you had a good night though!
yeah it was a good night,
we've been texting a bit but i'm not sure how much i should text really, i don't wanna seem desperate or anyhting, any hints??
thanks guys