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Waking someone up
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This could either be health or relationship so let me know if you think I should move it.
I'm having some pretty serious issues waking up my boyfriend (I mentioned this in chat last night) it can take me hours to wake him up for him to go home ( he has the tendency to fall asleep at mines in the evenings) and it's getting to the point where he gets all huffy with me, like after I wake him up, he gets his stuff together in silence, and is always in a bad mood with me. I know no one enjoys being woken up, but I'm just trying to make sure he doesn't be in trouble. Got any ways I can wake him up without him getting all bad moody with me, cause his bad mood with me puts me in a god awful mood
Help?
I'm having some pretty serious issues waking up my boyfriend (I mentioned this in chat last night) it can take me hours to wake him up for him to go home ( he has the tendency to fall asleep at mines in the evenings) and it's getting to the point where he gets all huffy with me, like after I wake him up, he gets his stuff together in silence, and is always in a bad mood with me. I know no one enjoys being woken up, but I'm just trying to make sure he doesn't be in trouble. Got any ways I can wake him up without him getting all bad moody with me, cause his bad mood with me puts me in a god awful mood
Help?
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But if it does feel like it's a reaction to being told to head home then talking about it has to be key. Even if he's upset because it means being away from you - well he's doing more harm than good right now.
But I know nothing of the situation.
I wasn't being flippant, just providing my best guess at why I'd be grumpy in that situation, given the limited information I had about it.
But that's just speculation - it's something he needs to realise is a problem and find a way to be talk to you about. Until he does that, outside of some medical issue, it's unlikely to change.
I'm gonna have a wee chat next time i see him about how him getting all annoyed with me makes me all upset and annoyed at the world and hopefully we can get somewhere.
His own fault.