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my man doesn't want any more kids and say noway to marraige
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I'm with my man 8 years engaged 6 and we have a 4 year old son together. The other day i asked him would he like to try for another baby and he said noway. that he never wants another one as one is enough . He thinks that we don't need to get married as a ring is enough his words not mine. I'm really hurt and now i'm wondering should i end things or put up and shut up.:banghead: :impissed:
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Do you feel theres a reason he doesnt want any more children
Same with the children thing, it must be awful for someone who wants a child to be told by their partner that they don't want any more children. There could be a reason for this, is your partner an only child? Or does he have lots of siblings and perhaps doesn't have fond memories of his childhood and therefore doesn't want that for your child? Or maybe it is financial concerns?
I really think that with issues as big as this you need to address them with him. I wouldn't just leave him without talking it through first, you must love him to want to marry him and have more children with him. You should also try to make it work for the sake of your child. You can't manipulate him into marriage or having another child though- that wouldn't be right- so prepare yourself for what might happen.
doesnt sound promising.
How old are you?
hmm, I don't think we know enough to say that about cazz.
Perhaps by talking to him about why marriage is really important to you and why you value him enough to want to marry him you can find some sort of compromise on the issue?
You may find thesite.org's article on communicating as a couple helpful.
The BBC has an article with exercises - do you want the same things, that might be worth exploring.
I think splitting up because you have different dreams about family, is a better reason than many have for splitting up
You're absolutley right